Sermon: At a time such as this, let go again to Golgotha. Just as we are today in horrendous pain, so was Jesus as He hung on that cross. And yet, while hanging by His nail torn flesh, He spoke the most powerful words of love ever utter to humankind. Let us hear those words again today so we may know that, even in this time of pain and doubt, He loves us completely, thoroughly for now and ever more.
The Bible records seven last statements that Jesus uttered while He was on the cross. These statements are important to us, not only because Jesus spoke them, but also because of the place where He said them. While Jesus was on the cross, He was doing his greatest work; He was uttering his greatest words. Luke 23:34 records one of his last statements: “Then Jesus said, ‘Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.’”
Sometimes it is difficult for us to forgive people. Someone hurts us, someone says something against us; and, in our hearts, we cannot forgive that person. Listen to Jesus’ prayer: “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.” Jesus prayed these words of forgiveness on behalf of the people gather at the foot of the cross; people who wanted to watch Him die; people who only the day before had shouted, “Crucify Him!” Jesus spoke these words of forgiveness on behalf of the Roman soldiers who only minutes before had nailed him to the cross. He said it for the members of the Sanhedrin who had rushed to find him guilty of a capital crime. He said it for his frighten disciples who had run and were in hiding. He said those words for each of you gathered here today. Notice the wonder of his words.
I heard some of you say, “I cannot talk to God! I cannot pray! I do not believe anymore—after what has happened to me.” Look at what happened to Jesus. He had preached love. He had healed the sick. He had fed the poor. He had done nothing bad to anyone. His only crime was to upset the social order.
For this, His nation sinned against Him. His own disciples failed him and fled. Peter denied Him. His heavenly Father was willing to see him suffer. He was up all night, dragged from one kangaroo court to another, found guilty of crimes He did not commit, beaten almost beyond recognition, multiple stab wounds in the head from the thorns in His crown, made to drag His own cross, pierced with spikes driven through His hands and feet, then raised on the cross, suspended by His nail-torn flesh between two thieves to suffer death.
In spite of all this, Jesus was able to look up into the heavens and begin his prayer with, “Father.” He lived in fellowship with his Father and knew that even under these horrible circumstances, God loved him. The Book of Matthew records that a Pharisees asked Jesus, “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?” and Jesus answered, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’” Jesus, under these most difficult circumstances of his life, remained true to His Father, even while he nailed to the cross, He never doubting God’s love,.
Some of you are hurting now. You are thinking, “If God loves me, how can he let me suffer so?” No matter how bad things seem, God loves us, and He always will; have no doubt in that. Do not lose faith. He is working out His purpose for each of us. Christ’s agony on that cross was for the greatest purpose. God raised him to eternal glory.
It is not easy to suffer. Pain hurts. It seems so unfair. A broken heart hurts far worse than a broken arm. If we really want to be a Christian, Jesus, here on the cross, shows us where we must start. We must start by following God’s will, no matter if our circumstances seem as dark as those that Jesus faced on the cross that day two thousand years ago. When we can say, “Father,” then we are able to look up to heaven and know that God will make all right.
Next in Christ's appeal we find “forgive them.” “Father, forgive them.” The Greek New Testament indicates that our Lord repeated this prayer several times. He said it as they laid Him on the cross as it lay on the ground. He said it as they drove the spikes through His flesh. He said it as they raised His cross, its base sliding into a hole in the ground, jerking erect with a sudden and painful thud. Finally, He said it as He hung there, dangled in the air by His mangled meat. “Father, forgive them.”
He could have prayed, “Father, judge them; Father, bring punishment upon them.” He could have called down legions of angels to deliver him, but he did not. Jesus knew what was coming. At his Last Supper, He had the power to turn and slip out of Jerusalem to walk away from the horrible pain that He knew the Romans would inflict upon him. Yet, He went to the Mount of Olives and prayed, “not My will, but Yours [Father], be done.” Jesus went to the cross because He loved us. He went to the cross knowing he would pray, “Father, forgive them.”
We must remember that all of this happened while Rome ruled the world. The Romans worshipped revenge. Revenge was one of their gods. Revenge is the god of the terrorists that flew airplanes full of innocent people into the Twin Towers, murdering 3,000 innocent souls who God created in his image. Our Lord Jesus did not worship revenge, nor should we. He prayed, “Father, forgive them,” and in doing so, He fulfilled the Word. He practiced his own message of forgiveness.
This, of course, was the purpose of His death. Our Lord was on the cross because God does forgive sinners. That is the message of the Gospels. We do not have to go around with the weight and burden of anger and revenge on our lives. We do not have to carry the guilt of sin. We can forgive!
Perhaps some will argue, “But you have no idea how others have treated me.” Well, I have an idea of how others treated Jesus, and yet He was able to say, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.” Our Lord not only prayed for the forgiveness of His enemies, but with this last phrase, He argued on their behalf. It is as though He stood as a lawyer and said to His Father, “Let me give you a reason why you should forgive them. They do not know what they do. They are ignorant of the enormity of their actions. They do not realize what great sinners they are.” Jesus was saying, “Father, my people do not understand. They do not know that I am dying for them. They do not know what they do. I know what I am doing; I am dying for them. Now, Father, forgive them so that I will not have died in vain, that I may, in this most horrible of circumstances, set a final example.”
God loves us. God loved __________. God wants us to be happy. While on the cross, Christ was still thinking only of our happiness and us. When we will not forgive someone, we are expressing a degree of hate. Hatred is one of the most destructive emotions. Indeed, every time we think about something someone did to us, we relive whatever reason we think we have for hating him or her. We become the victim of our own thoughts. That is why we are not to bear a grudge or seek vengeance.
“Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.” I say, nails did not hold Jesus on the cross, love did. Jesus’ last words from the cross gave us an example of how we may join Christ in His work on earth. These last words show us how to slip from evil’s hold on our lives. Jesus, while suffering to death on the cross, showed us another way to help establish His kingdom on earth.
While accident, illness or just old age death usually caused death, the death of _________ was by an emotional sickness – deep, complex mental distress, confusion in outlook – it was a sickness all the same. Let no one here think that they are responsible in any way for David’s death. No. For a short very unfortunate time, all reason was gone, dethroned; ________ lost control of his emotions. A feeling of total helplessness drove him to escape what to him seemed an unbearable existence.
It is not our duty to condone or denounce or to pronounce judgment for that is for the LORD our God to do. I tell you with absolute certainly that our God is a God of infinite mercy who knows sees all and knows all we do. None of us has ever faced such a crisis before. God loved ________ and he loves you particularly in this time of pain.
The fast pace of this complex world does things to peoples’ nerves and minds. It is certainly so for ______. He was not himself. If he could take voice now, I sure he would say, “Oh what have I done. Family, please forgive me for leaving you.” So please take the lead of the Jesus, and do as Jesus did on that cross two-thousand years ago, He looked down on those that had horribly wronged Him and said, “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do.”