Summary: Paul took seriously the obviously impossible goal of being all things to all men. The result is, he had the potential for pleasing everybody, but also for aggravating everybody ,and Paul was quite good at both.

A lion, a fox, an a hyena were moving through the jungle collecting their

dinner. When they were done they had gotten a large pile of animals. The

lion said to the hyena, "Why don't you go over and divide the pile into three

equal parts." The hungry hyena said, "Sure." He quickly separated the dead

animals in three equal piles. Immediately the lion sprung to his feet, and

pounced on the hyena, and killed him. He then put the three piles back

together, and threw the hyena on top. Then he said to the fox, "Why don't you

go over and divide the pile into two equal parts." The fox shuffled over and

pulled out a crow and made that his pile, and he left all the rest for the

lion. The lion smiled and said, "Mr. fox, how did you learn to divide so

equally?" The fox answered, "The hyena taught me.

Learning can take place fast with the proper motivation. The Bible says

that Satan goes about like a roaring lion seeking who he may devour. The wise

man learns fast that you don't eat this lion, or you will soon be a part of

the menu. But Satan is not the only lion in the Bible. In Rev. 5:5 Jesus is

called Lion of the Tribe of Judah. Paul learned fast that here is another

lion you don't mess with. Jesus sprung on Paul on the road to Damascus,

and He knocked him to the ground, blinded. Paul was persecuting his people,

and Jesus took it personal, just like a mother lion if someone is hurting her

cubs.

The paradoxical difference in these two lions is that the goal of one is

to devour, and the goal of the other is to deliver. The Lion of the Tribe of

Judah attacked Saul of Tarsus and delivered him from a life of bondage to law,

and made him Paul the Apostle of liberty, with a Gospel of freedom and life

for all men. It was not the lion's bite, but the lion's light that penetrated

Paul, and made him a reflector of that light. This lion, and his prey, became

the awesome twosome who together made Christianity a world wide movement that

broke down the walls between Jews and Gentiles.

Paul was no lion tamer, but he had the paradoxical experience of being

tamed by this Lion of heaven, who was king, not of the jungle only, but of the

universe. Jesus became Paul's Lord and King, and from his conversion on, Paul

was a man with one priority-to do his Master's will. But what we want to see

is that being lion-tamed, that is under the Lordship of Christ, does not mean

one is robbed of their individuality and uniqueness. Paul, as a Christian,

was still a very complex man with a great deal of variety about him.

He is different from any of the other Apostles. The more we study him, the

more we will see he is the product of two worlds. He has both a strong Jewish

background, and a strong Gentile background. He is a hybrid, and brings

together in one personality some radical differences.

Paul took seriously the obviously impossible goal of being all things to

all men. The result is, he had the potential for pleasing everybody, but also

for aggravating everybody ,and Paul was quite good at both. As far as I can

weigh the evidence, he was the most wanted man in the New Testament-dead or

alive. There were more plots to kill Paul than there was against Jesus, and

all of the other Apostles put together. Paul made more people angry then any

other New Testament personality. He was the most criticized by non-Christians

and by Christians alike. He has been the most controversial man of the New

Testament throughout history, and still is today. People love him or hate

him, and sometimes it is the same people, for Paul can be so loving and yet so

demanding.

James S. Stewart, the great preacher, said, "Paul can contradict himself,

can land himself at times in hopeless antinomy, can leap without warning from

one point of view to another totally different, can say in the same breath,

work out your own salvation, and it is God working in you, but through it all

and beneath it all there is a living unity and a supreme consistency...." His

consistency is that he was following his Lord, for Jesus was also a

paradoxical personality. Jesus said such things as, to save our life we must

lose it, to live we must die. Paul says, to conquer we must surrender. Jesus

says, to be exalted we must be humble. Paul says, to be wise we must become

fools. Jesus said, to be first we must be last. Paul said, to be strong we

must be weak. Paul said we are to have the mind of Christ in us, and he

certainly did. He was Lion-tamed, and trained to think like his Lord.

William Wilkinson writes, "Paul, like his Lord, was found of paradoxes,

and like his Lord he presented in himself a miracle of paradoxes reconciled."

In our text, and in the context, we see in Paul a man of unbelievable

stubbornness and unbeatable flexibility. He could be as hard as nails, and as

soft as putty. When it came to his goal there was no compromise, but when it

came to means toward a goal Paul was open to compromise. If we could be like

Paul, we could stand fast, and yet bend at the right time, so as to be more

effective in being a tool for the kingdom of God. Let's examine the two sides

of this particular paradox in Paul, and see if we can learn something about

being both stubborn and flexible. First let's look at-

I. PAUL'S DEMONSTRATION OF INFLEXIBILITY.

Verse 17 simply states that Paul arrived in Jerusalem. That sounds

innocent enough until you go back and see that Paul, in his determination to

reach Jerusalem, defied most all of the steps for knowing the will of God. He

rejected the counsel, advice, and warnings of just about everybody who cared

about him. Paul smashed through more road blocks to get to Jerusalem that he

did to get anywhere else in his world wide travels. He was like a man

obsessed. He would let no one hinder him in reaching this destination. It

was Jerusalem or bust for Paul, and he meant it.

Everybody else saw Paul on a collision course with his deadly opponents

among the Jews. It was like watching him play chicken, and as the two

vehicles raced toward each other, they warn Paul to pull off and save

yourself! But Paul never flinched, but like his Lord before him, he set his

face steadfastly for Jerusalem. Look at the obstacles he plowed through to

get there. In verse 4 of chapter 21 it says, "Finding the disciples there,

we stayed with them 7 days. Through the Spirit they urged Paul not to go onto Jerusalem."

But Paul said good-bye and headed on to Jerusalem. Then in

verses 10 to 11,it says a prophet named Agabus bound his hands and feet with

Paul's belt and said, "This is what the Jews will do to Paul if he goes to

Jerusalem." It was a prophecy right from the Spirit of God, and everyone else

was persuaded that Paul needed to change his course. Then in verse 12 we

read, "When we heard this, we and the people there pleaded with Paul not to go

up to Jerusalem."

Paul just said that he was ready to die if need be, but he was not going

to turn back. They argued with Paul, but he was so absolutely determined that

they just gave up. Everybody gave up on Paul, for nothing could change his

mind. He would not listen to anybody. When Dr. Luke says we pleaded with

him, he was including himself, and so all of Paul's best friends were all

convinced he was making a mistake. Red lights were flashing everywhere, but

all Paul could see was green, and he was ready to go. He was marching to a

different drummer, and was as stubborn as any saint has ever been. All his

friends were like gnats trying to stop a run away locomotive. Their efforts

were all in vain, and Paul went on to Jerusalem.

Paul was as mule-headed as anybody in history. There are some who match

him, however. Colonel Thomas Butler Jr., the Revolutionary War hero is an

example. He fought in many major battles, and Washington used him for special

assignments. When Thomas Jefferson became president, he made a new rule that

American soldiers could no longer wear pigtails. For over a century it had

been a custom for military men to wear a braid of long hair down their back,

usually tied with a ribbon. Now they were to be cut off. It had nothing to do

with our feelings about being feminine. Jefferson wanted no badges of

aristocracy, and the monarchy of the past.

Men of all ranks complained bitterly as their locks were shorn. It made

them feel like convicts, but they had no choice. With one exception, Colonel

Butler, they all obeyed. Because of his great service to his country, the

touchy issue was avoided for two years by his commanding officer. But then

they got into an argument, and the General ordered him to cut it off. He

refused and was arrested, and was taken to trial in 1803. After 6 months in

prison the General offered to release him if he would obey the order. He said

he would not do so, and appealed to Andrew Jackson, and got a petition going

which was signed by prominent citizens. The General countered with a court

martial. But before the papers reached him, Colonel Butler died of yellow

fever. He knew his end was near, and so had his friends prepare his coffin

with a hole board through the coffin right under his head, so that at his

military funeral his pigtail could hang out for all to see that even while

dead he was defying that order.

Now, that was stubborn, but history is filled with stubborn people.

Sometimes they are a pain, but sometimes they are also a key to progress, just

as Paul was the key to his being a witness for Christ to all the world. Look

at key people in the history of any field, and you will see a stubborn

determination to reach some goal.

Irving Berlin has been called the father of American music. His,

Alexander's Ragtime Band circled the world. Back in 1895 this 7 year old

refugee, son of a Jewish Rabbi, was on his first job selling papers on the

East side of New York. He made 5 pennies, and when he stopped to watch a

merchant ship being loaded, a crane caught him and knocked him into the East

River. Some nameless Irish warf rat dove in to save him. They got him to a

nearby hospital and pumped a considerable portion of the East River out of

him. The intern who did it noted this interesting detail: Even though he was

rescued just as he was going down for the third time, his right hand still

clutched all five of those pennies-the first he had ever earned. It was

prophetic, for this poor little kid was determined to make it in America, and

he did. The day would come when he would give a check for half a million to

the Emergency Relief Fund. He held on to his dream, and would not let go, but

persevered toward his goal.

Time does not permit, but I assure you that there are numerous true

stories of how determined people have changed the world. It is a principle

that works for the kingdom of darkness as well as the kingdom of light. You

can't even be effective in evil without determination. Al Capone was

successful as a criminal. He said there are three rules of success. The

first is, you always smile; the second is, you always carry a gun; and the

third is, you always stick with the plan. If you have to give one up, give up

the smile. If you have to give up two, give up the gun, but you never give up

the plan. He was right. He applied it wrong, but it is still true, and that

is what we see in Paul-he never gave up the plan. Nothing, or nobody, could

dissuaded him, for he knew he was fulfilling God's plan.

In chapter 20 verses 22-24 Paul spells it out clearly as to why he was so

stubbornly persistent in going to Jerusalem. He says, "And now, compelled by

the Spirit, I am going to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there.

I only know that in every city the Holy Spirit warns me that prison and

hardships are facing me. However, I consider my life worth nothing to me, if

only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me

the task of testifying to the Gospel of God's grace." Paul kept pressing on

because he was bitten and smitten by the Lion of the Tribe of Judah, and

nothing but death could stop him from doing what he was captured to do. Paul

was a man of stubborn determination, and his arrival in Jerusalem was a

demonstration of his inflexibility. Now, in this very context we see an example

of just the opposite-we see,

II. PAUL'S DEMONSTRATION OF FLEXIBILITY.

When Paul got to Jerusalem, he found a problem waiting for him. False

rumor that he was anti-Moses, and thus, anti-Jewish, had preceded him. This

was not a healthy reputation to have in Jerusalem. The leaders of the church

were concerned, and they had worked out a plan whereby Paul could make clear

that the rumors were lies. All Paul had to do was to get directly involved in

a strong Jewish custom relating to vows and purification. This would take him

to the Temple, and give the Jews a live demonstration that he was pro-Jewish,

and not against the customs of Israel.

Paul did not raise one word of objection to this plan, but went along

with it in full cooperation to try and bring peace, and prevent a division

between the Jewish and Gentile church. Now Paul would never impose this

Jewish custom on the Gentiles. It had nothing to do with salvation, and there

were other far more simple ways for Gentiles to be forgiven and purified

without all of this legalistic ceremonialism. But for the Jewish Christians

who still loved their heritage, this was the way they did things. Paul was

not interested in trying to change their customs, and make them forsake their

cultural heritage. As long as Jewish Christians did not consider their

customs essential to their salvation, Paul could go along with them. It is no

part of the Gospel to tamper with cultural issues and customs that people

practice, that are not immoral.

Compromise and flexibility on non-essentials is the essence of all

positive human relationships. If you are not flexible with friends, mates,

and associates in all walks of life you will lose those relationships. No two

people agree on everything. There has to be a point where you give in and

compromise, and let them have their way and say. To be stubborn and

inflexible, demanding your own way as the only way at all times, spells the

doom of any relationship. C. G. Jung said, "You can exert no influence if you

are not susceptible to influence." In other words, if you are never open to

any values in the lives of others, you cannot expect others to be open to your

values. Flexibility is the key to making any relationship work. Paul not

only knew this, he was the expert in its application. He knew how to be all

things to all men. He could bend and compromise on all sorts of personal and

cultural issues that had nothing to do with God's revealed will.

In dealing with some of the controversial issues that divided Christians

in his day, such as food offered to idols, vegetarianism, and the observance

of special days, Paul wrote to the Romans in chapter 14:5, and was so flexible

he could be on both sides, and he concludes, "Each one should be fully

convinced in his own mind." Paul did not take a stubborn stand on every issue

and say, this is the way and there is no other. Paul was stubborn, however,

in opposing those who had that sort of spirit. The Judaisers said the Gentile

Christians must be circumcised to be truly Christian. There was no compromise

for Paul on this issue. He fought this legalistic requirement as a rejection

of salvation by grace. Paul said to forget circumcision, for it is no longer

an issue. I Cor. 7:19 he wrote,

"Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing. Keeping God's

commands is what counts." In Gal. 5:6 he wrote, "For in Christ Jesus neither

circumcision nor uncircumcision has any value. The only thing that counts is

faith expressing itself through love." Paul was stubborn on this issue, and

refused to give an inch.

Paul said that circumcision is nothing, but also that uncircumcision is

nothing. There was no superiority in not being circumcised either, and so

Paul could be flexible in this very area where he was so stubborn. Paul did

not fight Jewish Christians in getting circumcised. That was their business,

and he accepted it. In Acts 16 he found the godly young man named Timothy,

and he desired to take him along on his journey. Verse 3 says, "So he

circumcised him because of the Jews who lived in that area, for they all knew

his father was a Greek." Did Paul compromise here? Of course he did, and it

was a brilliant strategy, for it prevented unnecessary controversy and

friction, and it led to strengthening the churches.

Paul did not circumcise Timothy out of any conviction that it was

necessary, but rather, as a flexible bending to the cultural circumstances.

It gave Timothy the freedom to minister with full acceptance where he

otherwise might be rejected. It was a cultural issue, and not a theological

issue, and Paul was flexible on such issues. That is why we see Paul involved

in what, to our Gentile mind, seems like much ado about nothing. It is

ritualistic and ceremonial, and smacks too much of the Old Testament law to

have any appeal to us. But Paul is not trying to teach us, or anybody else,

that ceremonial purification is of any value. What he is teaching us, by these

actions, is that the most stubborn saint alive, when it comes to determination

to do the revealed will of God, must be flexible in areas of life that are

merely cultural. The Christian who cares his stubborn theological convictions

over into cultural convictions is guilty of the idolatry of his own opinions.

The reason Paul could survive the storms that hit the early church was

because he was a paradoxical combination of stability and flexibility.

Tornadoes will sweep away that which is not deeply rooted, and also that which

is rigid. That is why the tree is the best survivor. It is deeply rooted, yet

also flexible, and able to bend a great deal without breaking. This

combination is what made Paul the key tool God needed to establish the Gentile

church, and yet, keep peace with the Jewish church. He was both rooted in

God's principles, and yet flexible to bend with the cultural winds that sweep

over the church. He was both a man of conviction, and a man of compromise.

To think it is a virtue to be stubborn on everything is to be like the

man who lay in the ditch paralyzed, who kept saying, "But I had the right of

way. I had the right of way." So what! There are situations in life where

you forget your rights, and bend to avoid an accident, or, you bend to avoid a

war, or some unnecessary suffering that can be prevented by a little self-

denial. The stupidity of stubbornness on the wrong issues is illustrated in

an old Marx Brothers film. They are searching for a lost work of art. Grocho

is convinced the picture is hidden in the house next door. But Chico points

out that there is no house next door. Not to be deterred, Grocho responds,

"Then we will build one." Determination to support one's own theory in spite

of the facts, is no virtue. Such determination is not only dumb, it can be

deadly. General Custer was determined to solve a problem even when all the

evidence indicated it was a hopeless case. He rode into Little Big Horn with

the seventh cavalry so outnumbered they were wiped out in 18 minutes. This

was dangerous and detrimental determination.

Paul was willing to die to do the will of God, but he was equally

determined to live at peace with all men, so far as it was in his power. He

also knew when to run, and we find him sometimes fleeing from his foes in the

middle of the night, and not stubbornly confronting his foes. Paul was not

stupidly stubborn, but fantastically flexible in his response to life's

obstacles.

The point of all this is that Paul's paradoxical personality is the key

to his being able to be Christlike, and it is like wise a key for us to be

like our Lord. Without the balance of forceful conviction and flexible

compromise, no Christian can be the tool God needs in every situation.

There is a time to be stubborn, and not let even those who love you most

stop you from going the direction God is calling.

There are destinations we must be determined to reach whatever the cost. But

there is also a time to be flexible, and to eat with the publicans and

sinners, or even the self- righteous Pharisees. Being paradoxical can get you

into a lot of trouble, just as it did Jesus and Paul, but it also makes you

the tool God can use most effectively, for being Christlike means to have a

paradoxical personality.