Summary: Paul says if all you ever pray about is what you need but you never stop and thank God for what you have you’ll always be anxious

Pastor Allan Kircher

Shell Point Baptist Church

November 2, 2014

The Winds and Waves of life

***All Sermons are in condensed form****

Read…Phil. 4/Paul showing us how to be brave.

• Share a story/Bible/series being brave…..

• Learn best thru stories/Experiential learner

• Excited/potential for your life over next weeks

Thought you weren’t a courageous person but just didn’t know how/access/courage God planted inside of you.

• 2 Tim 1:7….

If you are a child of God it’s not right for you to feel intimidated by every bad report you hear………………

• Phil 4:6-7..be anxious for nothing/how you doing with that?

One/reasons were so anxious about what’s coming because were not thankful enough for what we already have.

• But in everything………

Paul says if all you ever pray about is what you need but you never stop and thank God for what you have you’ll always be anxious

• With thanksgiving….peace of God…….that’s what I want!....

• A peace the economy can’t take away……

• How many of you want v. 7 first have to have v. 6

• Be anxious for nothing. Tell someone.

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All of God’s children have some irrational anxiety Paul says.

• He wants/correct that in Phil. 4

• He says/some things you’re afraid/make no sense from heaven’s perspective

• Things causing you to shut down/paralyzing you

• senseless when you put it/context who God is in you

• He says I want you/train your heart/be anxious for nothing.

Come on get real Paul/preacher talk/watch CNN/world news…

• Paul says I’m prison bro/writing/after they beat/flogged me

• If your following after God’s purpose/got no reason anxious

• Anxious for nothing…..repeat.

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Greek word….anxious…Merimnate 17 times…..marinate…

• If/marinate/wrong thoughts/going/filled with fear…

• Merim(knot)te you get so knotted up with anxiety….

• Paul says do not be Merimate for anything….

• Don’t get tied up in knots about stuff.

But your saying, don’t we need to worry about some things concerned about some things. Yes, be concerned, no don’t worry

• That’s what Paul is saying/same word Merimate

• uses Phil. 2 Philippians letter to particular church

• Phil. 2 sent/ministry assoc. Timothy check/church/he can’t

• He describes timothy Phil 2:20…Genuine concern/Merimnate

Situations you deal with determines whether or not it is a genuine concern or a needless anxiety. Come on church

• Learn/discern/between a genuine concern/needless anxiety

• sometimes you can interpret/same event/both of those ways

• turn/genuine concern into/needless anxiety/way you approach it/Cause it’s the same word

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Sometimes you go thru a situation:

• deal with and handle it with strength/brave about it that’s/genuine concern

• All tied up in knots about something you can’t do much about anyway that’s a needless anxiety

• Here’s how you can do it…..be anxious for NOTHING…

• ain’t nothing but a thing…broken car.

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Be concerned about the state of your soul/your children’s soul/ God’s work in the world.

• Learn to look/things in your life….nothing but a thing

• Look what Paul says in Rom. 8:31…….things…..

• say it out loud…things

• If God is for us who…..gives me courage sometimes.

• When I feel opposed….God is on my side…

• If He’s not I’m in trouble.

Doesn’t matter what their saying about me it’s a matter of what God sees in me

• If He’s for me, who is against me doesn’t matter

• take a number I’ll still be standing

• You can have that confidence. It’s not cocky, it’s confidence.

• Next verse 32…..all things….skip 37…things

• v. 38-39….bankruptcy, joblessness, homelessness, addiction

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Be anxious for nothing……Do that this week….

• Shift over from needless anxiety to genuine concern.

• Another way to look at it……I’m anxious for nothing….

• That’s a good goal to have.

• But isn’t it also a statement of reality.

• How many times have we’ve been anxious for nothing.

• Don’t you wish we could have all those moments back…..

• Of worrying about something that never happened?

Worry is a down payment on a problem you may never have.

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How many times have you said, “All that was for nothing”

• When I Go away……

• So one day Jesus wants to go on a trip. Mark 4:35-36

• …..other side…Jesus been preaching all day

• Parable sower/soils…mustard seed….

• Jesus preached all day tired tells Peter let’s get out of here.

In the boat, other boats, don’t hear about them, but Mark is giving us an eyewitness account

Mark/way he wrote his gospel writes down what Peter says/why Mark’s gospel reads a little faster

• peter gets right to the point all about action

• eyewitness account/disciples being anxious for nothing.

v. 37….notorious for storms….You ever felt nearly swamped?

• I’m still showing up but barely.

• I’m making it and smiling/nobody knows what’s behind smile

• Nobody knows what I’m thinking things I think about I just want to run away from it all

• v. 38….sleeping in the stern…Bible’s sense of humor

• Remember Jonah 1:5-6 storm came upon ship

• Jonah running from God

• sometimes God will send the storm to you to reroute you

• better thank God/some/storms he sends

• If He didn’t send/storm you/have ended up/wrong place

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Jonah 1:5-6…I’m thinkin Jonah/sleeping cause/complacent

• didn’t want to pursue God’s purpose

• Jesus/sleeping cause he was confident

• knew I’m right were God wants me to be

• stands to reason there’s no reason for me/get anxious now

• So I might as well get some beauty sleep

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In some of our lives, some winds are blowing

• Some waves are breaking, things/uncertainties happening

• Difficulties are facing and you don’t know what to do.

• Jesus seems/sleep/stern/you wonder

• “Don’t you care aren’t you the one who’s supposed to keep my life out of trouble.

• But you told me to get in/boat.

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I have this theory Jesus/tells/get in the boat/storm hits.

• Anybody else you would wonder/Jesus created world

• Knows/weather pattern/he sent them into a storm

Sometimes we create our own storms

• Some waves are God ordained in our lives.

• Some waves are waves we make

How can:

• we expect God/give us peace/we create our own anxiety

• He give you peace/situation you are currently creating.

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We create waves in our lives/words we speak.

• Have you ever made unnecessary waves with your words.

• Words out of anger/go back and fix.

• Words of doubt/frame your day/negativity/you wonder why?

• We create choppy conditions/morning/way we get up talking

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We create waves by our approach….it not what were going thru it’s the way were going thru it what were going thru.

• Some/live/no margin so were so nervous/it’s our approach

Anxious/money cause we spend too much/don’t make enough.

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Wrong voices can create unnecessary waves and anxiety.

• News today/really need/understand/conflicts/every country?

• No wonder your Merimnate….marinating/wrong voices.

• I listen to depression/people I hang out with are depressing.

• I’m making my own waves

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Sometimes the anxiety we feel when we awake is because we don’t expect any battles that day so we feel it is a surprise attack when it hits us.

• Why are you surprised God said put on/full armor of God.

• Take up/helmet/shield/sword/you got/get dressed for battle

• Don’t’ be surprised expect some storms.

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Master wave maker in our souls—shame

• Walk around anxious cause your hiding stuff

• Wonder when/they going to find out about my secret

• your tormented by something God already forgave

• difference conviction/shame

Conviction is good it shows you what to fix and it gives you God’s power to help fix it

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• So they wake Jesus…don’t you care if we die.

• Mark 4:39…3 words then/wind died down…completely calm.

• v. 40….why are you so afraid

• don’t you know when I tell you were going to get to the other side were going to get to the other side.

• V. 41….if you thought they were sacred of the storm….

• three words he could shut it off like a shower head.

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When Jesus is sleeping in the stern easy to deduce

• “were going to die” “he doesn’t care”

• I’m never going get another boyfriend/job/ better job/

• My husband never going to change/….

• They eventually got to the other side.

We wonder why doesn’t God do more of all the chaos in our lives.

• Why doesn’t he fix situation before they get that bad?

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We celebrate when God heals someone of cancer but silently we wonder why they had cancer to begin with

• I don’t think Jesus was upset when they woke him up

• I think he wanted them to wake him up

• It was the way they woke him up, “you must not care.”

• In everything it says in Phil.

• You’re supposed to ask God he wants you too.

• Lord I need you help me with this…..

• But don’t assume he doesn’t care. …

• I believe Jesus put them/storm not/test them but/teach..

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Because the real waves that take you down are not out there there the ones in here.

• You think it’s/circumstances making you anxious it’s not

• you think it’s the other persons reactions it’s not

• How do I know this James 1:6…

• That’s why God lets me experience winds/waves in my life

• So He can teach me/calm/winds/waves within…

• the real waves are within.

• You’ll never/peace till you can speak peace/waves within.

• Jesus said, be still and the waves stood….now it’s your turn.

• What I just did/sea/what I want you do/your anxious heart

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Next time/winds of what if start blowing/negativity start blowing….

• I want you to get up from/stern/ship

• Hold up your hand and say quiet be still…

To learn/calm/waves within you can learn to ride/waves without

• We’re going to go deeper into this teaching next week

• You think the problem is God won’t calm the waves without

• Real problem is you haven’t learned to calm/waves within.

• Learn to be peace keepers in our soul.