Summary: Funeral Sermon for a couple, killed in a car accident, who had fallen out of church for a few years.

FUNERAL: Billy and Judy Reece 050612

TEXT: Various

I. THE QUESTIONS OF OUR HEARTS

A. The question we are all asking ourselves: Did Billy and Judy go to

Heaven?

1. There are problems with with us even asking such a question. It

puts us in the posistion of being judge over someone’s eternal

destiny. We are not judges, we are those who one day be judged.

2. When we try to judge people, we ususually end up judging them by

our standards. “Did this person have a lifestyle or habits which I

consider to be somewhere a little lower, a little more sinful than

mine?” We judge people accorning to our flawed human reason

and logic rather than searching the word of God—the Bible for

answers.

3. If we are not the judge, then who is? I hope we all know the answer

to that question. The Judge is our Creator, the King and Ruler of

the Universe.

4. He is the One who sparked life and gave us a soul at the instant of

conception. He is the One who gave us our first breath as we

came from our mother’s womb. He is the one who collects our

breath as we breathe our last.

5. It is interesting to know that in Hebrew and in Greek, the languages

of the Bible, the word breath can be translated breath or spirit. So

God gave us our spirit, and when we pass from this earth, He

captures it again.

6. The spirits of Billy and Judy are at this very moment in the hands of

God—the judge of everyone who has ever drawn breath.

7. Our next question is: What do you think God will do now that Billy

and Judy are in His hands?

II. HERE IS WHAT WE KNOW

A. Billy and Judy a few years back accepted Jesus as Savior and Lord—

or at least the recommitted themselves to this truth.

1. Their lives were turned around. They left the old man behind. They

became new creations.

2. Miracles began to happen for them. Retribution which was due

them for past acts was stopped in its tracks by the mighty hand of

a merciful God.

ILL. I don’t remember all the details—I try not to remember people’s sins and short comings since I have so many of my own. But I remember Billy was going before an earthly judge—He was guilty—the penalty would be severe. I believe the penalty would require him to do some time. The church prayed—we prayed for mercy. Billy admitted his wrong, but also gave testimony as to the work that Jesus was doing in his life. God got involved. And as is the case in every occasion, when we tie our lives in knots, then give our tangled mess back to God, God immediately begins working, untangling that knot.

I’m ashamed that I don’t remember as clearly as I should, but I believe that the judge sentenced him to a number of months of mandatory church attendance here at PCC—When you consider some of my sermons, you must know--that’s hard time my friends that some might consider cruel and unusual punishment.

3. Here is something else we know. We wish we didn’t but

unfortunately we do. Billy and Judy fell out of church. I’m sure the

devil gave them plenty of excuses that seemed like well-formed

reasons.

4. As they fell out of the Christian fellowship, some of the old ways

began to creep and seep back in. I do not know to what degree

and do not want to know.

--This is the thing that causes us to become judges and ask that

problematic question as to where they will spend eternity.

5. Yet we feel we must know. Dear family, you are grieving. Truth be

told, it is this question which grieves you the uttermost. The idea

that you will not see them again here on the earth is a distant

second.

6. If we could just gain some sort of assurance that we will see them

one day, we will grieve, but we will be OK.

7. Where can we acquire this assurance? Where can we find the

peace we need? I’ve already told you—it’s in God’s word, the

Bible.

III. CONSIDER GOD’S CHARACTER

A. 1 John 4:8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because

God is love.

1. We do not serve a vengeful, mean spirited god, as the Muslims do.

2. Throughout Old and New Testaments we are told we serve a God

who loves us no matter what. Roman’s 8:35, 39 Who shall

separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship

or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?...

neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will

be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ

Jesus our Lord.

a. Psalm 13:5 But I trust in your unfailing love; my heart

rejoices in your salvation.

b. 40 times in the Old Testament, the segment of our Bible where

we think God seems the harshest, we read of His unfailing

love for us, 34 in the Psalms alone.

c. What is unfailing love? It’s a love that keeps on loving even

when our love fails

3. We also know that our God is full of mercy and grace. There is a

difference between Mercy and grace.

a. Mercy when God doesn’t inflict upon us the punishment we so

well deserve.

b. Grace is when God lavishes upon us gifts we have not

earned—the greatest of these of course is salvation, eternal-

life, and the opportunity to live with Him in Heaven.

c. 2 Chronicles 21:13 David said, Let me fall into the hands of

the LORD, for his mercy is very great; but do not let me fall

into human hands.”

d. 28 times the Psalms tell of the great mercy of God

e. Hosea 6:6 For I desire mercy, not sacrifice, and

acknowledgment of God rather than burnt offerings.

f. Romans 11:29, 30 …for God’s gifts and his call are

irrevocable. 30 Just as you who were at one time

disobedient to God have now received mercy as a result of

their disobedience,

g. And Grace? There are too many passages in the Bible to begin

to present to you in one message about His grace. My

favorite is Ephesians 2:8, 9 For it is by grace you have been

saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the

gift of God— 9 not by works, so that no one can boast.

IV. CONSIDER BILLY AND JUDY’S ACTIONS

A. Yes, I guess we would all agree that Billy and Judy to some degree

had indeed fallen back some. How far you ask? I don’t know!

Remember, I’m not the judge. I’m the guy God has called to do my

best to get you ready for the judge and one day I myself will also be

judged.

1. The question we all ought to ask is, “What does it take to be ready

for the Judge?” Again the Bible tells us all we need to know about

that.

2. Romans 10:8-11 “The word is near you; it is in your mouth and

in your heart,” that is, the message concerning faith that we

proclaim: 9 If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,”

and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead,

you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe

and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess

your faith and are saved. 11 As Scripture says, “Anyone who

believes in him will never be put to shame.”

3. This is what the Bible tells us we must to in order to be ready to

meet the Judge. If we do this, we will not receive the sentence of

eternal death which our sins have earned for us. Intead, we will

find mercy and receive the gift of God’s grace

4. Did Billy and Judy do that? They most certainly did when they

came to the Lord God seeking salvation a few years back?

5. Their lives may have slipped, but did they ever reach a point where

they stopped confessing with their mouth that there was One Lord

over the entire Universe? Did they ever stop believing that God

raise Jesus from the dead?

6. Did Billy and Judy need to repent? Of course they did. But don’t

you need to repent? Don’t I have areas of my life that I need to

repent for and seek the face of God over for the power to

overcome?

ILL. A few days before the tragedy of the late evening of April 5, Lucy had a burden. She did something about that burden. I’m afraid most of us try to disregard the burdens God places upon our hearts under the guise of telling ourselves that it is really not our business. Billy had been suffering from a migraine headache for a couple of days. He was laid up so to speak. Lucy had a captive audience. It is wonderful how God uses something painful like a migraine to open the door for mercy and grace to step in. Lucy had a heart to heart talk with Billy about his soul and his relationship with God. Billy responded to Lucy with a confession. He confessed the Lordship of Jesus the Christ. What does it say in Romans? Only God has a window into our souls. Only God knows if repentance took place.

7. Don’t wait for a migraine headache and a Lucy to come knocking

at your door. Get ready to meet God my friend.

V. CALL UPON THE NAME OF THE LORD

A. Luke 23:32, 39-43 Two other men, both criminals, were also led

out with him to be executed…One of the criminals who hung

there hurled insults at him: “Aren’t you the Messiah? Save

yourself and us!” 40 But the other criminal rebuked him. “Don’t

you fear God,” he said, “since you are under the same

sentence? 41 We are punished justly, for we are getting what our

deeds deserve. (repentance)But this man has done nothing

wrong.” 42 Then he said, “Jesus, remember me when you come

with your kingly power” 43 Jesus answered him, “Truly I tell you,

today you will be with me in paradise.”

1. You can repent as you sense the Holy Spirit move across your

seared conscience while sitting in a church pew.

a. You can repent as you stare at the ceiling at 3:00 am because

the Holy Spirit is keeping you awake.

b. You can repent as you are dying on a cross.

c. You can repent by uttering the name “Jesus!” as your car spins

out of control on a slick road.

2. Peter speaks of the very last moment that such a call is possible.—

the very last opportunity. He says Acts 2:20, 21 The sun will be

turned to darkness and the moon to blood before the coming

of the great and glorious day of the Lord. 21 And everyone

who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.’

There is a fountain filled with blood

drawn from Emmanuel's veins;

and sinners plunged beneath that flood

lose all their guilty stains.

Lose all their guilty stains,

lose all their guilty stains;

and sinners plunged beneath that flood

lose all their guilty stains.

The dying thief rejoiced to see

that fountain in his day;

and there may I, though vile as he,

wash all my sins away.

Wash all my sins away,

wash all my sins away;

and there may I, though vile as he,

wash all my sins away.