Summary: About parent’s role and responsibility in transmitting faith to their children.

The Seventh Sunday after Pentecost

July 31, 2011 Proper 13 A

St. Andrew’s Church

The Rev. M. Anthony Seel, Jr.

Psalm 78:1-7

One morning a zookeeper discovered that a kangaroo was out of his enclosure and roaming freely in the zoo. Knowing the kangaroos can hop very high, he instructed the zoo workers to construct a ten foot high fence around the kangaroo’s enclosure.

The next morning the zookeeper discovered that the kangaroo had once again gotten out of his enclosure, so this time he instructed the zoo workers to construct a twenty foot high fence. The next morning the kangaroo was once again found wandering around the zoo. This time the fence was extended to 40 feet high.

The camel in the next enclosure asked the kangaroo, “How high do you think they will go?”

“Pretty high,” the kangaroo replied, “unless somebody figures out to close the gate at night.”

[from Tommy Burrus, “Passing the Torch,” sermoncentral.com]

For parents, there comes a time when we have to open the gate for our children. We teach them right and wrong. We teach them about God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit. We help them to understand how to best function in society, and we instill in them ways of thinking and patterns of behavior. After all this, we know that there comes a time when we have to leave the gate open and allow our children to wander out into the world.

Our psalm this morning highlights one of the most crucial aspects of parenting, but first the psalmist declares,

vv. 1-2 Hear my teaching, O my people; incline your ears to the words of my mouth. I will open my mouth in a parable; I will declare the mysteries of ancient times.

The psalmist assumes the role of a teacher. He encourages his hearers to listen attentively; he will now speak to them in parables. As we know from Jesus’ use of parables, they are wise sayings that can sometimes be hard to understand. In Psalm 78, the Psalmist intends to reveal the “mysteries of ancient times.”

v. 3 That which we have heard and known, and what our forefathers have told us, we will not hide from their children.

Ancient Israel was an oral culture. The law of God for the people of Israel and Israel’s history was primarily passed on by word of mouth. Fathers and mothers taught their children, grandparents, if they were around, taught grandchildren.

v. 4 We will recount to generations to come the praiseworthy deeds and the power of the Lord, and the wonderful works he has done.

In Old Testament times, there were two ways to know God. First, by observing or learning about divine action:

God created all that is.

God called Israel to be His people.

God acted on their behalf.

Divine action is what the psalmist calls God’s praiseworthy deeds.

In time, God called Moses to be His prophet to Israel and through Moses God taught Israel how to live. The law was God’s gracious gift to Israel. Law is the second way that Israel learned about God.

Law and divine action are both necessary for us to know God and to live in relationship with Him.

Torah, often understood as simply law, has a broader meaning. Torah is story and commandments. It is God revealing Himself and His ways for us.

It is essential that we “recount to generations to come the praiseworthy deeds and the power of the Lord, and the wonderful works he has done.”

Recently we have seen that young people are wandering away from the church in unprecedented numbers. For various reasons they leave the church when they are free of parental control. This is a huge problem. Youth don’t know the Christian faith and don’t see its relevance for their lives. A first step is helping youth to see how God is still active in the world.

What has God done in your life?

What has God done in St. Andrew’s, our church and people?

What is God doing in the world today?

Can you communicate solid answers to these questions to your children and grandchildren?

v. 5 He gave his decrees to Jacob and established a law for Israel, which he commanded them to teach to their children;

Decrees, laws and precepts were given by God for the betterment of His people. God commanded that parents teach His ways to their children. One reason for this is given in verse six.

v. 6 That the generations to come might know, and the children yet unborn; that they in their turn might tell it to their children;

This succession of transmission goes from generation to generation, and the purpose of this responsibility in given in verse seven.

v. 7 So that they might put their trust in God, and not forget the deeds of God, but keep his commandments.

The home school movement in America has reminded us that education used to be a family function. Social reformers, in the words of historian Christopher Lasch “saw the family… as an obstacle to what they conceived as social progress…” Haven in a Heartless World, p. 13

What has happened since the institution of compulsory education in the United States is what sociologists call “transfer of function.” As early as 1918, progressives in America were saying, “Once the school had mainly to teach the elements of knowledge, now it is charged with the physical, mental, and social training of the child as well.” Ibid.

When our daughter was in Kindergarten, her school system in Illinois called this physical, mental and social training “comprehensive care.” Do you see this transfer of function from the family to the school?

It doesn’t stop there. Comprehensive care includes psychologists, social workers, probation officers, in other words, what are called the helping professions. As Christian parents and grandparents, we need to be careful. The state will not necessarily teach Christian values. Too often, the state will teach values contrary to the Christian faith. We can’t pass of parenting to school teachers, coaches, psychologists, and social workers.

Even Christian teachers in a public school cannot give your children and grandchildren the love, nurture and understanding that comes best from a healthy family. A Christian teacher in a public school is likely prohibited from teaching our children about the “praiseworthy deeds and the power of the Lord.”

This week was Vacation Bible School week at St. Andrew’s. Our volunteers worked diligently to communicate God’s love to the children entrusted to their care during VBS. Our Sunday School and Children’s Chapel leaders are also diligent in communicating the gospel to our children week by week.

These activities can only supplement the faith teaching that parents and grandparents do in the home. After all we are only together once a week , generally for less than two hours a week. Our kids need daily help in growing an authentic Christian faith.

With young children, read the Bible to them. With older children, give them time to read the Bible to you. For youth, train them to read the Bible on their own.

Pray with your children and teach them how to pray. Teach your children the Christian faith. Lead your children to receive Jesus Christ as Savior and commitment to follow Jesus Christ as Lord.

If you will do all this, when it comes time to open the gate, your children will be prepared to walk into the world equipped as a saint of God. When that happens, you will know that you have done your utmost for your children, thanks be to God!

As many here know and Mary and I are learning, parenting never ends. Pray often for your kids, continue to speak with them about God and His work in the world. Continue to be an example for them of mature Christian faith.