Mayor Gerardo Balmori
The Salvation Army
Introduction:
Today’s world don’t make it easy to be a Godly Dad. We often make the assumption that Dads
really need to be thrashed about the head and neck for failing to live up to God’s standards – and
then wonder why they don’t come to church. Men I have the inspiring privilege to share with you
the power of being a man of God.
We live in a world where Father’s are disparaged at every turn. Turn on the TV – you will find the
vast majority of men portrayed as bungling, insensitive, boozing, lecherous, jerks. It is rare to find
a father portrayed in a good light. Maybe that speaks to the state of entertainment in the US or
maybe it speaks to the state of manhood in our society – but either way the messages are all
wrong. Don’t get me wrong– there are plenty of bungling, insensitive, boozing, jerks out there –
but in my experience there are far more – men who are genuinely trying if often failing to do it
right. Let’s talk about doing it right and the rewards found in getting it right.
Psalm 128 – this psalm many believe is a psalm that was sung during Israelite marriage
ceremonies. It has wonderful teaching for us as men today.
1) You have the power to be happy – We live in a generally unhappy society.
The truth is that people make a living making you unhappy. From advertisers who are telling you
that you need their product to make you happy – to political power brokers who get elected by
telling you that they will make you happier than the other guy – the world runs on making you
unhappy. We all know people who are killing themselves to get ahead in life, to find happiness.
Many never find it. Psalm 128 starts out with the word “blessed”. To be blessed is to be truly
happy, regardless of circumstances. It includes well-being, fullness, prosperity. The Jewish
Talmud says “We see life, not as it is, but as we are.” It’s a matter of perception, which means that
some people will never be happy, no matter what. True happiness is not something external or
fleeting; it is within, and for good. Happiness isn’t a matter of luck; there are no tricks involved.
We have the power to be happy – but often we look in the wrong places. This passage says that if
we Fear God and walk in His ways that we can find happiness.
2) You have the power to make your home what you want it to be
– Verses 3-4 tell us that our homes can be blessed. The picture of wives as fruitful vines and
children as olive plants is more than a picture of a large and growing family. It is a picture of
prosperity, comfort, and love. Grapevines and olive plants are symbols of prosperity – riches – in
Jewish culture. This picture is not of a perpetually pregnant wife (whew ladies) but of a home
where there is a richness and comfort and prosperity. In Japan there is actually a buisness that
rents ready made families for a fee who will show up on their doorstep and greet them with
enthusiastic warmth. It’s not a cheap service, but the business is a huge success. The founder of
the company explains, “What is common about our clients is that they are thirsty for human love.”
Unfortunately I am afraid the company will be short lived as people find out that you cannot buy
love and it cannot be fabricated. The truth is though that too few of our marriages show the
blessing of God today. Often they are marked with bitterness – confusion – and apathy. The truth
is that we as men have the power to transform our marriages and our children by the choices that
we make. The Scripture again says that if we fear God and walk in His ways that our homes will be
full of His blessing.
3) You have the power to transform the world around you – Psalm
128 talks about the prosperity of the nation of Israel. You – men – have the power to make our
community and our nation strong and prosperous – or weak and failing. It depends on where you
place your focus – where you spend your time – what you teach your children. Are you teaching
your children how to have a happy home – a lifelong marriage – and success in life? Are you
preparing the next generation to be a Godly generation? Your teaching will be the lifes blood of the
next generation of Political leaders, journalists, teachers, preachers, and laborers. The values that
you instill will be the values of those who rule when you are old. What legacy are you leaving our
world our nation and our community? The scripture tells us that we can transform the world if we
fear God and walk in His ways.
Conclusion: Men I have told you that you hold the power to transform your own happiness,
your marriage and family, and the nation around you. I believe that with all my heart. Now let me
share with you the two keys to getting it right.
1) Fear the Lord – Understand that this does not mean to be afraid of God. It means to
respect Him – to understand who is in charge. When I was growing up – and in fact still today – I
fear my father. I have never been afraid of my father – he has never given me reason to be afraid of
him. But I fear him in that I honor and respect him. When I was growing up – when my dad spoke
we listened. There was no bartering whining complaining or throwing temper tantrums to get our
own way. There was also no ignoring him and doing as we pleased. When Dad spoke we listened.
That needs to be true for us men. If you want to be happy, if you want your home to be happy, if
you want your nation to be happy – listen to God. Do it His way not your way. Understand that He
is in control – He is the boss – He is the creator – and He has the power. The more you love Him,
the more you fear Him – the more you will find what you have been searching for all this time.
Happiness.
2) Walk in His ways – the truth that will never fail us is this “In that which I am
obedient I am blessed, in that which I am disobedient I am disciplined.” It is an unfailing truth of
life. God tells us how to be happy, he tells us how to treat our wives and children, he tells us how to
shape our nation – how obedient are we to His call to us? The scriptures assure us that if we follow
the Lord – He will make our paths straight. No one said it was going to be easy to do just that you
will be blessed if you do it.
Men you face challenges in life daily – difficulty in you work, at home, and even at play. But some
things in life are worth the fight. They are worth the work – God promises that if we fear Him and
follow Him that He will establish us in blessing.
