Summary: Why do we allow our lives, destiny's to be shaped by or even influenced by others words? I am meeting more and more people who once walked with the Lord and wound up getting hurt and walking away...what can be done? We look at it in this message of hope!

Why do we allow our lives, destiny's to be shaped by or even influenced by others words?

„X We have all encountered those all too eager people, who feel they are shaping us and keeping us from our own lack of wisdom... I look now at them and just speak blessing into their lives. It truly is only God who can show them, that there are three fingers pointed back at themselves, if they would even hear His voice, or look at their own hands...No one has to show me my lack, faults and mistakes who knows them better than me???Well God does!!!

As I was thinking about this, a thought came to me...If people would run to God and see what he has to say about things they would find this setting of scripture and I totally love it...

Found in Philippians 4:4-9

4 -5Celebrate God all day, every day. I mean, revel in him! Make it as clear as you can to all you meet that you're on their side, working with them and not against them. Help them see that the Master is about to arrive. He could show up any minute!

6 -7Don't fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God's wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It's wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life.

8 -9Summing it all up, friends, I'd say you'll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious¡Xthe best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse. Put into practice what you learned from me, what you heard and saw and realized. Do that, and God, who makes everything work together, will work you into his most excellent harmonies.

„X This one setting of scripture should be enough to help us understand that our tongues which form either words of blessing or words that offend, sometimes we use it to speak a curse into someone¡¦s life and these are dangerous things for not only the hearer of the words but the speaker of the negative words.

2For in many things we offend all. If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body.5Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth! 8But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.

9Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God.

10Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.

11Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter?

12Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh.

13Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom.17But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.

18And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.

I love how James put here in in Chapter 3 verses 5-18

5 -6It only takes a spark, remember, to set off a forest fire. A careless or wrongly placed word out of your mouth can do that. By our speech we can ruin the world, turn harmony to chaos, throw mud on a reputation, send the whole world up in smoke and go up in smoke with it, smoke right from the pit of hell.

7 -10This is scary: You can tame a tiger, but you can't tame a tongue¡Xit's never been done. The tongue runs wild, a wanton killer. With our tongues we bless God our Father; with the same tongues we curse the very men and women he made in his image. Curses and blessings out of the same mouth!

10 -12My friends, this can't go on. A spring doesn't gush fresh water one day and brackish the next, does it? Apple trees don't bear strawberries, do they? Raspberry bushes don't bear apples, do they? You're not going to dip into a polluted mud hole and get a cup of clear, cool water, are you?

Live Well, Live Wisely

13 -16Do you want to be counted wise, to build a reputation for wisdom? Here's what you do: Live well, live wisely, live humbly. It's the way you live, not the way you talk, that counts. Mean-spirited ambition isn't wisdom. Boasting that you are wise isn't wisdom. Twisting the truth to make yourselves sound wise isn't wisdom. It's the furthest thing from wisdom¡Xit's animal cunning, devilish conniving. Whenever you're trying to look better than others or get the better of others, things fall apart and everyone ends up at the others' throats.

17 -18Real wisdom, God's wisdom, begins with a holy life and is characterized by getting along with others. It is gentle and reasonable, overflowing with mercy and blessings, not hot one day and cold the next, not two-faced. You can develop a healthy, robust community that lives right with God and enjoy its results only if you do the hard work of getting along with each other, treating each other with dignity and honor.

„X All of us, even me, can get caught up in the realm of the negative, you see God gives us choices....I so love that about my Heavenly Father... I think sometimes He must just shake his head, and say he'll get it eventually for my Word does not return void...Keep reading Ron... You see it wasn't until "I caught" just "a glimpse of how God seen me," that "His" "Freedom" came rushing into my upper room... I thought my lights were on, and somebody was home only to find out the opposite...It would take His light by His word to change my alignment to God's purpose's and divine destiny in and through my life, and you will find the same for yourself, then your eyesight will begin to clear. You will finally be able to "forgive yourself" and you will begin to- speak -"Faith"- when others speak judgment, words of condemnation...

„X I choose not receive words of negativity anymore, but rather to look to the word of God for Real wisdom, God's wisdom, begins with a holy life and is characterized by getting along with others. It is gentle and reasonable, overflowing with mercy and blessings, not hot one day and cold the next, not two-faced. Summing it all up, friends, I'd say you'll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious¡Xthe best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse.

„X It is time for us to speak blessings over our lives others lives, our children's lives, your families¡¦ lives and your friends and even enemies lives... The word says ¡§Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof." Proverbs 18:21 Releasing the blessings of God, by the proclamation of your words... God said ¡§speak to these dry bones..¡¨ He knew the outcome, if by faith the prophet would speak life to and give a future to what looked dead, dried up, of no good use to the Master...But God looked into the dust of this earth from whence he formed man and saw a mighty Army... 3And he said unto me, Son of man, can these bones live? And I answered, O Lord GOD, thou knowest. Again he said unto me, Prophesy upon these bones, and say unto them, O ye dry bones, hear the word of the LORD. 5Thus saith the Lord GOD unto these bones; Behold, I will cause breath to enter into you, and ye shall live: 6And I will lay sinews upon you, and will bring up flesh upon you, and cover you with skin, and put breath in you, and ye shall live; and ye shall know that I am the LORD. 7So I prophesied as I was commanded: and as I prophesied, there was a noise, and behold a shaking, and the bones came together, bone to his bone. 8And when I beheld, lo, the sinews and the flesh came up upon them, and the skin covered them above: but there was no breath in them. 9Then said he unto me, Prophesy unto the wind, prophesy, son of man, and say to the wind, Thus saith the Lord GOD; Come from the four winds, O breath, and breathe upon these slain, that they may live. 10So I prophesied as he commanded me, and the breath came into them, and they lived, and stood up upon their feet, an exceeding great army. Ezekiel 37:3-10 We need to see what God sees, for in the midst of the dust, God seen it was usable¡KOur perception and God¡¦s are different until faith steps in speaks to our tongues and says "speak the impossible¡Kwatch God do the impossible..."

„X I choose to speak words of Life through the word of God to speak to you a Future, so You look better, Walking in Favor, Prosperity, Let me Encourage you, Let me speak Life to you, whether you are a brother, those who do not believe or those been wounded by words...the word says "pray for those who despitefully use you..." I want to see them change and experience the freedom in God that he has been blessing me with...Letting go of what we know or think or have accepted from others....And accept God's grace, freedom and His thoughts and plans for your lives. Jeremiah 29:11

„X In my last days of Ministry here on this earth, I have cried out to God to change me, and bring a new Revelation of His Mercy, Grace and Freedom to share with the hurting... For usually we speak out of what we know or have an experience with...think about that for a bit and ask God for revelation...

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