Summary: This sermon has three parts: firstly speaking our feelings of hurt to God; secondly asking God for help; and thirdly is our expression of faith even in pain.

Blue Christmas 2010: Dec 21, 2010

Prelude:

Welcome:

Welcome to this service, “A Blue Christmas”... a time when we can…

I have chosen Psalm 13 for this service, and the service is structured around that short Psalm. There are three parts to it, as there are to this service. First is the honest expression of pain. The Psalms are very good at this, much better than we are today. We will find in the words of the Psalm permission to hurt, permission to cry out to God and wonder where He is, and permission to speak our feelings. Second is the turning to God, asking Him to help, seeking Him with all our heart and soul and mind and strength. Third, and finally, is the expression of faith even in the pain. We speak, out loud, our conviction that God has been good, God’s love is unfailing, and God will meet us.

The service outline is in the bulletin, which you will need to follow along. Wherever the text is in BOLD, please join in speaking those lines.

Prayer

MOVEMENT #1 – Honest Expression of Pain (Ps 13:1,2)

Psalm 13:1-2

How long, O LORD ? Will you forget me forever?

How long will you hide your face from me?

How long must I wrestle with my thoughts

and every day have sorrow in my heart?

How long will my enemy triumph over me?

Song: How Long (Doerksen) vs 1

Waves (vs. 1)

Responsive Reading: Scripture (Is 59:9; Jn 8:12; Is 9:2,4; Ps 22; Ps 121:1-2):

People: Justice is far from us, and righteousness does not reach us. We look for light, but all is darkness; for brightness, but we walk in deep shadows.

Leader: Jesus said, "I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life."

People: My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from helping me, so far from the words of my groaning?

Leader: O my God, they cry by day, but you do not answer.

People: And by night, but I find no rest.

The Blessed Night Of Two Hearts

Weary

Worried and Frazzled

Frustrated, confused and hurting

Two lonely figures made their way into town

A journey they could ill-afford to make

A poor carpenter and his young wife.

Life was not easy

Rumours wounded their reputations

Talk of fanaticism

Broken dreams

Dashed hopes of a groom longing

For a sweet innocent bride

Desperate surrender to their God

Relinquishment and determination

Bowing to the will of God.

A cold desert night

Beyond their strength

Their only place of respite

A hovel

The pain unbearable

Wracking her slight body

No mother near

No comforting hand

Only a nervous, terrified husband.

Lost together

Found in their divine purpose

Bound by hope

Unified by the wonder of the cry of a newborn babe

Human both

God accomplished His purposes

Through two hearts

Surrendered to his will

The immortal became mortal

That blessed night

Psalm 13:1-2

How long, O LORD ? Will you forget me forever?

How long will you hide your face from me?

How long must I wrestle with my thoughts

and every day have sorrow in my heart?

How long will my enemy triumph over me?

Time of Silent Reflection on Personal Pain

MOVEMENT #2: Turning to God (Ps 13:3, 4)

Preamble…

Look on me and answer, O LORD my God.

Give light to my eyes, or I will sleep in death;

my enemy will say, "I have overcome him,"

and my foes will rejoice when I fall.

Song: How Long (Doerksen) vs 1 and 2

Waves (vs. 1, 2)

Testimony – Lyn

Walking the Path of Sorrow

Reader I will light a light for an Agony in a Garden:

When the Son of God faced the bleakness of loneliness

and fear in the face of death.

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Reader I will light a light for a Scourging:

The Son of God - despised and rejected,

a man of sorrows - acquainted with grief.

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Reader I will light a light for a Crowning:

The King of Glory with a crown of thorns:

shamed - humiliated -

powerless in the face of evil.

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Reader I will light a light for a Carrying:

A burden beyond bearing -

the sins of the world,

borne by the Lamb of God.

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Reader I will light a light for Crucifixion:

Father, forgive them-

they don't know what they are doing.

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Reader Jesus said, "Do not be afraid little flock

I have overcome the world."

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Reader I will light a light for hope

the life of God confronting the evil of the world

the light of God: a beacon of hope for his faithful people.

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Invite to come forward and light a candle as desired.

Stay in prayer as long as feels comfortable.

Allow people time to be sorrowful - perhaps to share their thoughts and feelings if appropriate.

Music/Ministry time

Here I am to Worship and/or Clinging to the Cross

Find Me in the River

I Belong

God is With Us

Possibly as a “readers theatre”? (red = reader 1; green=reader 2; blue=reader 3; black=unison)

When the world was dark

and the city was quiet,

you came.

You crept in beside us.

And no one knew.

Only the few

who dared to believe

that God might do something different.

Will you do the same this Christmas, Lord?

Will you come into the darkness of tonight's world;

not the friendly darkness

as when sleep rescues us from tiredness,

but the fearful darkness,

in which people have stopped believing

that war will end

or that food will come

or that a government will change

or that the Church cares?

Will you come into that darkness

and do something different

to save your people from death and despair?

Will you come into the quietness of this town,

not the friendly quietness

as when lovers hold hands,

but the fearful silence

when the phone has not rung

the letter has not come,

the friendly voice no longer speaks,

the doctor's face says it all?

Will you come into that darkness,

and do something different,

not to distract, but to embrace your people?

And will you come into the dark corners

and the quiet places of our lives?

We ask this not because we are guilt-ridden

or want to be,

but because the fullness our lives long for

depends upon us being as open and vulnerable to you

as you were to us,

when you came,

wearing no more than diapers,

and trusting human hands

to hold their maker.

Will you come into our lives,

if we open them to you

and do something different?

When the world was dark

and the city was quiet

you came.

You crept in beside us.

Do the same this Christmas, Lord.

Do the same this Christmas.

Amen.

Cloth for the Cradle, Iona Community

Psalm 13:1-4

For the director of music. A psalm of David.

How long, O LORD ? Will you forget me forever?

How long will you hide your face from me?

How long must I wrestle with my thoughts

and every day have sorrow in my heart?

How long will my enemy triumph over me?

Look on me and answer, O LORD my God.

Give light to my eyes, or I will sleep in death;

my enemy will say, "I have overcome him,"

and my foes will rejoice when I fall.

MOVEMENT #3: Affirmation of Faith (Ps 13:5, 6)

But I trust in your unfailing love;

my heart rejoices in your salvation.

I will sing to the LORD,

for he has been good to me.

Song: Psalm 13 (complete)

Waves (complete)

Video: “Wonderfully Made” http://www.theworkofthepeople.com/index.php?ct=store.details&pid=V00322

The Spirit is breathing. (Dom Helder Camera, Its Midnight, Lord)

All those with eyes to see,

women and men with ears for hearing

detect a coming dawn;

a reason to go on.

They seem small, these signs of dawn

perhaps ridiculous.

All those with eyes to see,

Women and men with ears for hearing

uncover in the night

a certain gleam of light;

they see the reason to go on.

Benediction (selected verses from Isaiah 40):

"Comfort, comfort my people," says your God. "Speak tenderly to Jerusalem. Tell her that her sad days are gone and that her sins are pardoned. Messenger of good news, shout to Zion from the mountaintops! Shout louder to Jerusalem--do not be afraid. Tell the towns of Judah, "Your God is coming!" Yes, the Sovereign LORD is coming in all his glorious power. He will rule with awesome strength. See, he brings his reward with him as he comes. He will feed his flock like a shepherd. He will carry the lambs in his arms, holding them close to his heart. He will gently lead the mother sheep with their young. Who else has held the oceans in his hand? Who has measured off the heavens with his fingers? Who else knows the weight of the earth or has weighed out the mountains and the hills? Even youths will become exhausted, and young men will give up. But those who wait on the LORD will find new strength. They will fly high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint.