INTRODUCTION: Today’s woman has no easy task. More appliances and conveniences are placed within the home with the goal of making the household chores easier. Things have certainly changed from the time that I was a child. There were no micro-wave ovens, icemaker refrigerators, and many of the other modern appliances found in today¡¦s home. However, in spite of all these changes that supposedly add to the convenience of the home, women today are probably busier than at any other point in history.
Expectations for women have changed as well. Today, she is expected to not only cook the bacon, she has to help bring it home as well. Even though she may work 40 hours plus, she is still expected to be the main housekeeper. She is often expected to keep the house, cook the meals, wash the clothes, and take care of the children. Their day is often from sunup to sundown.
Then there is the super mom
This is the woman that attempts to have it all, a good education, a great career, and be a great mother as well. Many women are finding that this is not that easy.
Regardless of time schedules, and calendar organizers, there is still only 24 hours to work with in a day, even though at times we wish for 36 hours in a day so I could get everything done as well, but there is no such thing.
With everything that is expected of them, many women try to cut corners in order to make for time for a busy day.
The problem with this is that one aspect that often gets cut or overlooked is that of the spiritual. Many women, (and men as well) fail to make time for God.
If anyone focuses only on the material, and neglects the spiritual, they will not be fulfilled and happy.
Someone once said, It is the woman that sets the mood for the home. My version of that is "If mom ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy."
Yet, often overlooked, and trivialized by our society is the greatest opportunity to mold the future of our nation, the future of our communities, and the future of our churches. That opportunity is called motherhood!
Napoleon who once said, The fate of a child is always the work of his mother.
Our passage today, I realize, is not about mothers.
The scripture never mentions either Martha or Mary as being mothers. That’s one details that we may never know. We can only speculate and wonder.
Tradition sees Martha as the older sister who was widowed and who took her brother and sister under her care. What we do know about them was that they lived in Bethany, just outside Jerusalem.
However, Martha and Mary were women, who faced decisions that were important, with results that had eternal consequences. Jesus loved both of these women, they were dear to Him, along with their brother, Lazarus.
Here in Luke, the only time they are mentioned in this Gospel, we are told that Martha received Jesus into her house.
Jesus was an up and coming rabbi, Who was gathering a following. No doubt, Martha wanted everything to be just right, after all, some were even saying that this was the Messiah. She was busy, working, while Mary, her sister, was listening to the words that Jesus taught. Jesus told Martha that Mary had chosen the best part. This passage of scripture shows three differences between Martha and Mary.
I want to show them to you this morning, all the while remembering that Mary had chosen the better part. This text applies to mothers, women, as well as to men. See where you fit in this morning.
I THERE WAS A DIFFERENCE IN FOCUS.
A Both of them had differences focuses.
1 Webster Dictionary defines focus as the point where reflected rays come together, the center.
2 Here by focus, I mean the things they were concerned about.
3 That which was the center of their lives.
B Notice what they were paying attention to.
1 The scripture tells us that Martha was concerned about serving.
a That is what she was focused upon.
b No doubt she was excited. Jesus was coming to her house.
c She wanted everything to be just right.
d Jesus was the honored guest so it was customary to prepare a meal for the guest.
e I don’t know what was being prepared, but I’m sure that Martha put everything she had into it.
f She was busy serving the Master.
I have met people who spend all the time being busy. They serve on every committee the church has. They teach Sunday School, they teach Wednesday night Bible study classes, they head up the Ladies¡¦ Ministries. If there’s a position open in the church they do their best to fill it. However, they do all these things, yet they never find the time to develop a closer relationship with Jesus. Did you know that you can be too busy for the Lord?
Now I not saying it’s a bad thing to serve the Lord, I¡¦m not saying it’s a bad thing to be involved in church work. May God help us, we need more people that are willing to be involved for I believe that God has a work for every singular one of you here this morning. There are classes that need to be taught, and ministries that need to be developed.
A study was conducted several years ago and it found, regardless of the size of the church, be it 20 or 2000, that roughly only 10% of the church’s attendance are active in performing the ministries of the church.
No wonder so many people suffer burnout and no wonder some people are too busy working for the Lord to develop a closer relationship with Him. They have to do their job plus someone elses. Would to God we had more people who were willing to serve.
g Martha’s service was not a bad thing.
1 The problem was in much serving.
2 Martha was focused on serving.
3 The Greek word used here for serving is the word diakonia.
4 The Greek word for deacon comes from this word.
h Serving is not a bad thing, but Martha had allowed it to become the center of her attention.
1 She was cumbered about with much serving.
2 I think that is the key word, "much".
3 All her energy, all her attention, and all her focus was on serving.
Some would attempt to psychoanalyze her and say that maybe she suffered from low self-esteem and by her service she was attempting to overcompensate for it.
Some might say that she was just a type A personality.
Theologians might say that she was works based, thinking that maybe by her works she could please the Lord.
I don’t know. I do know that she was focused upon the wrong thing.
Now think what a tragedy it is, to have the Lord of the universe in your house, and you¡¦re too busy to hear what He has to say. Did you know that we have people that sit in churches every Sunday, in the presence of the Lord, and their thoughts are 10,000 miles away, they¡¦re too busy to hear what the Lord has to say.
This in not just confined to church work either. There are mothers who labor hard on the job, working to build a future for their children, working to build a good home for their families, and they never give thought to the spiritual needs of their children.
Thank God for every mother who takes the time to teach her children about the Word of God, and thank God for every mother who pays enough attention to the Word of God that they can teach it to their children.
Jesus says it this way,
John 6:27 Do not work for food that spoils, but for food that endures to eternal life, which the Son of Man will give you. On him God the Father has placed his seal of approval."
Jesus said to not put all your energy into that which is only temporary.
I know of Dads and Moms who work and lay up for their children and when they are gone, everything they put up their children waste it in just a short time.
It not appreciated but it is taken for granted.
I have yet to hear a child say that they didn’t appreciate the faith that their parents passed on to them.
2 Now notice Mary,
A the scripture says that she was sitting at the feet of Jesus and notice this,
b she heard His word.
Moms, are you hearing His Word today? Are you taking the time to listen to Jesus? Are you focused upon Him? Mary was focused on Jesus and His word, she chose the better part.
II THERE WAS A DIFFERENCE IN THEIR FELLOWSHIP WITH CHRIST.
A Now let’s pay attention to Mary. She was sitting at the feet of Jesus.
B The Greek means that she literally sat down right in front of the feet of Jesus.
1 She wanted to get as close to Him as she possibly could.
2 She didn’t want to miss a word of what Jesus was saying.
3 She knew that there was something special about this man called Jesus.
4 To be at someones feet is a place of closeness.
Let me tell you something this morning, you are as close to Jesus as you want to be. I know that you don’t like that, I know that you will give me your excuses, but Jesus desires for you to be close to Him. If you are not as close to Him as you used to be, guess who moved?
5 For Mary, fellowship with Christ was a priority in her life.
Listen, the scriptures say that you have been called into fellowship with Christ.
1 Corinthians 1:9 God, who has called you into fellowship with his Son Jesus Christ our Lord, is faithful.
a Mary knew that to fully receive from Jesus, she must shut everything else out and focus on being close to Him.
C Now lets go back to Martha.
1 We are not told that she was in a specific location.
2 We are just told that she was cumbered about with much serving.
3 She was probably here in this place for a while and then she would move to another place within the house.
4 Notice is the word cumbered.
a This is a word that we don’t use a lot in modern English.
B Here is how several translations deal with this passage
Luke 10:40 (KJV)
40 But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to him, and said, Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? bid her therefore that she help me.
Luke 10:40 (NIV)
40 But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, "Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!"
Luke 10:40 (MSG)
40 But Martha was pulled away by all she had to do in the kitchen. Later, she stepped in, interrupting them. "Master, don’t you care that my sister has abandoned the kitchen to me? Tell her to lend me a hand."
Luke 10:40 (AMP)
40 But Martha [overly occupied and too busy] was distracted with much serving; and she came up to Him and said, Lord, is it nothing to You that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me [to lend a hand and do her part along with me]!
c Martha was letting her tasks draw her away from Christ.
1 Remember, she was the one who received Christ into her home.
2 She was the one who welcomed Him.
3 Now, other things have become more important and she is drawn away from the One she needs to hear the most.
How many times do we receive Christ into the home of our hearts, welcome Him, and then allow other things to consume us and draw our attention away from Him?
Christ warned us about this in a parable:
Matthew 13:20-21 The one who received the seed that fell on rocky places is the man who hears the word and at once receives it with joy. 21 But since he has no root, he lasts only a short time. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, he quickly falls away.
If we are not careful, we will be like the ground that received the seed with joy, yet because we do not take the time to ground ourselves in fellowship with Him, the rocks and stones of our lives don¡¦t allow the seed to grow.
Then we become overwhelmed with our troubles and cares and die out spiritually.
Ladies, this is a grave danger.
Hebrews 2:1 We must pay more careful attention, therefore, to what we have heard, so that we do not drift away.
What do you have to do to drift away?
Absolutely nothing.
The currents of life, the cares of life, and the temptations of life, will naturally cause you to drift away.
There is a story of a man who had just brought a boat and kept it in the harbor on the coast of Florida. A hurricane warning went into effect, the storm was brewing just off the coast and was about to hit land. He didn’t know what to do.
He has made a sizable investment in this boat and he didn’t want to loose it so he asked for advice. A friend, who had experience with both boats and hurricanes gave him this advice.
Don’t attempt to tie the boat to the dock or anything on land. It will be torn to pieces.
Here’s what you need to do. Your only hope is to anchor deep. Take four anchors, and drop them deep and the boat will ride out the storm.
That is good advice spiritually as well. If you don’t want to drift away, if you want your life to mean something, if you want to leave your children an example of what it means to be a Christian, anchor deep in your fellowship with Christ. If we don’t center our lives upon Christ, we too will drift away.
REMEMBER AGAIN, THAT MARY HAD CHOSEN THE BEST PART.
III THERE WAS A DIFFERENCE IN THEIR FEELINGS.
A Notice what Jesus said about Martha in verse 41.
Luke 10:41 "Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things,
B What I want you to see was Martha¡¦s feelings.
1 She was upset, she was anxious and she was worried.
C When you don’t focus upon Christ, when you don¡¦t anchor deep in fellowship with Him, this is often the end result.
Remember the words in the Hymn, What a Friend We Have In Jesus.
What a friend we have in Jesus, all our sins and griefs to bear. What a privilege to carry, everything to God in prayer. O what peace we often forfeit, O what needless pain we bear, all because we do not carry everything to God in prayer.
D Martha had the One Who could speak peace to the storm, the Prince of peace, right in her home, but she’s far from being peaceful.
1 Her feelings are those of anxiety, fear and concern.
2 She is troubled.
I can’t help but wonder, how many mothers today are filled with fear, worry, and concern, all because they don’t focus on the Peacemaker?
It’s a scary world that we live in.
We send our children to school everyday and we don’t know if we will ever see them again.
School shootings, kidnapers, drugs, alcohol, occult activities can all be found in our schools today.
If you don¡¦t want to go crazy, you have better have the Prince of Peace as the center of your life.
3 Let’s look at Mary.
a The scripture doesn’t say what she was feeling.
b It just tells us that she was sitting at the feet of the Master.
c She is focused upon Him and His words, but I know she was feeling peace.
d Here is what the Bible says,
Isaiah 26:3 You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you.
Luke 10:42 but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her."
4 Notice what the Lord said to Martha. He said one thing is needful.
a Did you catch that? One thing is necessary (Greek translation).
I realize that your days are filled with activities,
I realize that your schedules are busy.
But Jesus said one thing is necessary.
Martha was busy, but what would it had mattered, in the big picture of eternity, if maybe supper was a few minutes late?
What would it had mattered, if she had everything just perfect, and yet missed out on eternity?
You may keep an immaculate house, I hope you do, but do you find time for God?
You may be moving up the corporate ladder of success, I hope you are, but it is worth missing out on eternity?
You may be raising your children according to the latest principles of child rearing currently being advocated by the American Psychological Association, but only one thing is needful, only one thing is necessary, and that¡¦s your relationship with God.
Jesus told Martha, Mary has chosen the good part that won’t be taken away from her. She was making plans for eternity.
