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Praiseworthy Pride Series
Contributed by Glenn Pease on Mar 23, 2021 (message contributor)
Summary: A legitimate pride is a completely personal matter, and does not depend upon anyone else. It is a matter of personal satisfaction in accomplishing something that is praiseworthy.
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One of the most common paradoxes of history is the paradox of
succeeding through failure. Jesus failed to turn Israel from her sins,
and they crucified Him, but He thereby succeeded in paying the
penalty for their sin, and also for the sins of the world. By
descending into the valley of failure, He arrived at the peak of
success. The cross became both the low point, and the high point of
history. There are numerous illustrations of this paradox. A
contemporary example comes from the experience of Dr. Paul
Tournier, the well known Christian physician of Switzerland, whose
many books are very popular in America.
In his book The Adventure Of Living, he tells of a lecture he gave
at a University. He felt from the beginning of the lecture that he was
not going to make contact with his audience. He clung to his notes,
and laboriously recited with growing nervousness. When he
finished, he saw his friends slipping away to spare both he and
themselves the embarrassment of meeting. On the way home in the
car his wife burst into tears because the humiliation was so great. It
was the most miserable lecture he had ever given. The next day a
professor of philosophy called him on the phone. He said he had
listened to a large numbers of lectures in his life, and had never
heard one as bad as Dr. Tournier's. The very dullness of it, however,
intrigued him, and he wanted to meet Dr. Tournier. This was the
beginning of wonderful friendship that resulted in this professor
receiving Christ as his Savior. Dr. Tournier said, this was the source
of more lasting joy to him than if he had delivered a brilliant lecture.
It was his impressive failure that opened the door to the thrilling
success of winning a man for Christ. Praise God that He can use
even our failure for His glory.
Let us not, however, strive to fail, and seek to be nothing in the
hope that God will use it to make us successful and something. The
Christian never deliberately aims for anything but the best. Success
is always to be his goal. Set your affections on things above; press on
toward the mark for the prize; run to win; fight the good fight for
victory; whatever you do, do it as unto the Lord, give of your best to
the Master, and no less. The Christian never chooses to run poorly,
but strives always for excellence.
The result of this, of course, will be that Christians will arrive at
the goal of success by the normal route of fulfilling the requirements
for success. It is then that they face the danger of failure, and can
become an example of the paradox of failing through success. It they
let success to go their head, and become proud and boastful, they
cease to be useful instruments for the glory of God, and so they fail in
their highest goal. This is what Paul was warning against in verse 3.
The Christian who does not fall, but has by persistence in good
habits, and development of self-control, resisted temptation, can still
fail if he allows pride to make him think he is really something, even
too good to help the fallen brother.
Many Christians, seeing the danger of pride in success, fall into
the opposite danger of a false humility, nothing is more superficial
and unspiritual than when one who has done an excellent thing
pretends that it is really nothing at all. This is not humility but sheer
falsehood, or deception. A Christian who excels in some aspect of life
cannot honestly pretend that he is a dud. If a Christian boy holds the
world's record for the 100 yard dash he would appear silly if he
pretended to think he was not very fast. Karl Olsson writes, "How
many excellently cooked dinners have been dismissed by humble
housewives as nulities, a mere hogwash-because these estimable
ladies thought it sinful to admit that they were the best chicken
roasters in 7 counties, which, in effect, they knew themselves to be."
Christians can even come to the point where they are proud of
their humility, and get great satisfaction in pretending to be nothing,
and incapable of anything praiseworthy. This pretense at failure
only succeeds in making them failures while they are succeeding.
This kind of humility is only a more subtle form of pride.
I am that voice which is the faint
First, far-off sin within the saint,
When of his humbleness he first
Takes thought, and I become that thirst
Which makes him drunken with his own
Humbleness, and so casts him down
From the last painful stair that waits
His triumphing feet at heaven's gates.
In other words, false humility will cause the Christian to fall just as