Mercy In The Cave – Overcoming The Urge For Revenge Series

MERCY IN THE CAVE – OVERCOMING THE URGE FOR REVENGE

By Rev. Samuel Arimoro

Main Text: 1 Samuel 23-24

Supporting Texts: Romans 12:17-21, Matthew 5:44, Proverbs 20:22, Psalm 37:7-9, 1 Peter 3:9

INTRODUCTION:

There are moments in life when those who have wronged us are placed within our reach. In such moments, the temptation to avenge ourselves becomes strong—especially when our actions could be justified. David found himself in one of these moments when Saul, his relentless persecutor, unknowingly entered the very cave where David and his men were hiding.

1 Samuel 23–24 presents a sharp contrast between fleshly vengeance and spiritual restraint. David had every opportunity to kill Saul and end his running. His men encouraged him, circumstances seemed aligned, and Saul was vulnerable. Yet David chose mercy over murder, conviction over convenience, and honour over hatred.

This passage teaches us that true strength is not revealed in retaliation, but in restraint. God tests the hearts of His chosen leaders in secret caves—before He crowns them in public places. Revenge may satisfy the flesh, but mercy honours God and paves the way for divine elevation.

1. EVEN THE ANOINTED ARE TESTED BY BETRAYAL AND PURSUIT

David’s righteousness did not exempt him from being pursued. Saul, driven by envy, was relentless in his attempt to destroy him.

a) David Inquired of the Lord Before Acting (1 Samuel 23:1–2)

When news came that Keilah was under attack, David didn’t act on impulse—he sought divine direction.

b) God Confirmed David’s Victory Over the Philistines (1 Samuel 23:4–5)

Even while on the run, David was still delivering cities. Purpose is not paused by persecution.

c) The Men of Keilah Planned to Betray David to Saul (1 Samuel 23:12)

Ingratitude is a painful part of leadership. Those you help may still hand you over.

d) Saul Pursued David Daily, but God Did Not Deliver Him (1 Samuel 23:14)

The enemy’s effort may be consistent, but God’s protection is unbreakable.

Biblical Example: Jesus healed many, but the same crowd later shouted, “Crucify Him.” Even perfect love faces betrayal (Luke 23:21).

2. GOD USES RELATIONSHIPS TO REFRESH US IN HARD SEASONS

Amidst betrayal and pursuit, God sent Jonathan to strengthen David’s hand in the Lord. Divine friendships are lifelines in dark times.

a) Jonathan Went to David in the Wilderness and Encouraged Him (1 Samuel 23:16)

Even one loyal friend can be a great source of strength during affliction.

b) He Reminded David of God’s Promise and Sovereign Plan (1 Samuel 23:17)

A true covenant friend will redirect your focus to the Word of God, not your wounds.

c) Their Friendship Was Based on Destiny, Not Convenience

Jonathan risked his father’s wrath to build David’s courage. Loyalty costs something.

d) They Made Another Covenant Together (1 Samuel 23:18)

In times of pressure, reaffirming covenant relationships brings stability and hope.

Biblical Example: Paul found encouragement from Barnabas when others doubted his calling (Acts 9:26–27).

3. GOD PROVIDES DIVINE ESCAPE FROM HUMAN TRAPS

When Saul surrounded David, it looked like the end. But God always makes a way of escape for His faithful ones.

a) Saul Almost Captured David at Maon (1 Samuel 23:26–27)

David was literally surrounded—trapped on one side of the mountain. The situation looked hopeless.

b) A Message Came to Saul That the Philistines Were Attacking (1 Samuel 23:27–28)

God orchestrated a distraction to preserve David. Divine interruptions are sometimes heaven’s intervention.

c) The Place Was Named “Sela-hammahlekoth” – Rock of Escape

Your deliverance will be so significant, you’ll remember the place God showed up for you.

d) God’s Timing is Perfect Even When the Pressure is Intense

He may not come early, but He will never be late.

Biblical Example: Peter was rescued by an angel from prison just before Herod could execute him (Acts 12:6–11).

4. MERCY TRIUMPHS OVER VENGEANCE IN THE CAVE OF TESTING

David’s most powerful moment wasn’t when he defeated Goliath—but when he spared Saul. Mercy is greater than might.

a) Saul Entered the Cave to Rest, Unaware David Was Inside (1 Samuel 24:3–4)

The man hunting David walked right into his hands. This was a divine test.

b) David’s Men Urged Him to Kill Saul (1 Samuel 24:4)

Voices around us may push for revenge, but the Spirit within calls for restraint.

c) David Cut Off the Corner of Saul’s Robe Instead (1 Samuel 24:5)

Even that small act pierced his conscience. Sensitivity to the Spirit is a mark of true leadership.

d) “I Will Not Stretch Forth My Hand Against the Lord’s Anointed” (1 Samuel 24:6–7)

David honoured the office, even if the man in it was flawed. This is spiritual maturity.

Biblical Example: Joseph had power over his brothers in Egypt but chose forgiveness over retaliation (Genesis 50:19–21).

5. HONOURING GOD EVEN IN INJUSTICE BRINGS DIVINE VINDICATION