Maintaining A Godly Home Series

MAINTAINING A GODLY HOME

By Rev. Samuel Arimoro

Main Text: Joshua 24:15

Supporting Texts: Psalm 127:1, Ephesians 5:22–33, Colossians 3:18–21, Deuteronomy 6:6–9, Proverbs 22:6

INTRODUCTION:

A godly home is not built by chance but through intentional commitment to the Word of God, prayer, and Christ-like character. In today’s world of shifting values and moral confusion, it is more vital than ever for Christian families to be rooted in God’s principles. A godly home becomes a reflection of heaven on earth—a place where God's presence dwells, His will is done, and His love is expressed.

The home is the first institution God created, and it is foundational to the church and the society at large. When the home is in order, godly children are raised, marriages flourish, and communities are blessed. But when it is broken or ungodly, the results ripple into the church and the nation.

To maintain a godly home, each family member must embrace their God-given responsibilities and intentionally cultivate an atmosphere where God's Word, love, peace, and purpose reign. This message will highlight how you can maintain a home that honours the Lord.

1. ESTABLISH CHRIST AS THE HEAD OF THE HOME

A godly home must be built on the foundation of Jesus Christ.

a) Prioritise daily fellowship with God (Joshua 24:15)

Every godly home begins with a clear decision to serve the Lord.

b) Make God's Word the final authority (Deuteronomy 6:6–9)

Teach His Word diligently to your children and live by its precepts.

c) Involve Christ in every family decision (Proverbs 3:5–6)

Acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path.

d) Build a family altar through prayer and worship (Psalm 127:1)

Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labour in vain.

Biblical Example: Cornelius' household was recognised for fearing God and being devout, and God visited them with salvation and the Holy Spirit (Acts 10:1–2, 44).

2. PRACTISE GODLY MARRIAGE PRINCIPLES

The marriage relationship is the heart of the home and must reflect Christ.

a) Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25)

Lead with love, sacrifice, and spiritual responsibility.

b) Wives submit to your husbands as unto the Lord (Ephesians 5:22)

Submission is not weakness but divine order for harmony.

c) Communicate with love and respect (Colossians 4:6)

A peaceful home is maintained through kind and truthful communication.

d) Forgive quickly and avoid resentment (Ephesians 4:26–27)

Don’t allow offences to destroy your intimacy and unity.

Biblical Example: Priscilla and Aquila served God together in harmony and were a blessing to the early Church (Acts 18:2, 18, 26).

3. RAISE GODLY CHILDREN THROUGH TRAINING AND EXAMPLE

Children are not born godly; they must be trained intentionally.

a) Teach them God’s Word consistently (Proverbs 22:6)

Early spiritual training will shape their future.

b) Be an example in words, conduct, and character (1 Timothy 4:12)

Children learn more by what they see than what they are told.

c) Discipline with love, not with anger (Proverbs 13:24)

Loving correction helps shape a child’s character.

d) Pray for your children regularly (Job 1:5)

Cover them spiritually and intercede for their future.

Biblical Example: Timothy was raised in a godly home through the faith of his mother and grandmother (2 Timothy 1:5).

4. CREATE AN ENVIRONMENT OF PEACE, LOVE, AND ORDER

God’s presence thrives in an atmosphere where love and peace reign.

a) Avoid strife, criticism, and harsh words (Proverbs 15:1)

A soft answer turns away wrath, but harshness stirs up anger.

b) Promote love and forgiveness daily (1 Corinthians 13:4–7)

Love must be the language and lifestyle of every godly home.

c) Set godly boundaries for media, friends, and habits (Psalm 101:3)

Protect your home from ungodly influences.

d) Celebrate family time and spiritual growth (Hebrews 10:24–25)

Encourage one another and spend quality time in worship and the Word.

Biblical Example: The home of Mary, Martha, and Lazarus was a place of love and welcome where Jesus frequently visited (Luke 10:38–42, John 12:1–3).

CONCLUSION:

A godly home is a spiritual fortress where love, truth, and the fear of God are practised. It is built daily through commitment to Christ, sacrificial love in marriage, intentional parenting, and a peaceful, Spirit-led atmosphere. Every believer must fight to preserve the sanctity and godliness of the home.

The enemy targets homes because he knows it is the foundation of the church and society. But when families honour God, they become a light in a dark world. Let us be determined to maintain a godly home that will influence generations for Christ.

PRAYER POINTS:

1. Lord, be the foundation and centre of my home.

2. Help me and my spouse to walk in love, unity, and purpose.

3. Empower us to raise children who love and fear You.

4. Let peace, joy, and Your presence saturate our home.

5. Oh Lord, destroy every ungodly influence trying to creep into our family.