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Lord, I'm Not Okay, but I'm Still Here

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Created by Sermon Research Assistant on Oct 3, 2025
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God invites our weary, honest selves to find true rest in His presence, offering comfort and strength for every burden we carry.

Introduction

There’s a hush that comes when a roomful of tired hearts hears a kind voice. I believe that’s what this moment can be—a hush for hurried souls, a pause for people who have given their best and still feel thin, a holy breath for those who woke up weary. Some of us are carrying backpacks no one else can see—grief you don’t know how to name, pressure that never clocks out, questions that don’t have easy answers. Your mind is neon with to-do lists at midnight. Your shoulders sag under loads that no chiropractor can fix. You feel spent. Maybe you’ve been brave for so long that brave now feels brittle.

If that’s you, you’re in the right place. If your smile is tired, if your prayers are quiet, if your courage is coming in whispers rather than shouts, welcome. There is a Savior who sees the tremor in your hands and the tremble in your heart. He is gentle with the tired and near to the weak. He speaks in the language of lullabies to souls that forgot what rest feels like.

John Wesley once said, “The best of all is, God is with us.” That sentence, short and steady, is a soft pillow for the soul. God is with us—in waiting rooms and break rooms, on the long commute and the longer nights, in the cancer clinic and the kindergarten pickup line, when bills pile up and when tears do too. God is with us. And because He is with us, we can bring Him what we usually hide. He can handle the honest version of you—the sighs, the sleeplessness, the second-guessing.

Listen to the invitation Jesus gives. It is tender. It is clear. It is for you today.

Scripture Reading: Matthew 11:28 (NIV) “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

There’s no small print in that sentence. No screening questions. No spiritual scorecard. Just a Savior with open arms and an open calendar. “Come to me.” Bring the ache that has outlived your answers. Bring the anxiety you’ve tried to manage with caffeine and calendar apps. Bring the guilt, the grit, the grind. Bring the face you show the world, and the face you see in the mirror when the house is quiet. Bring it all.

What if this is the day you lay down what’s been laying you low? What if this is the hour you name the pain without pretending? Could it be that rest is nearer than you think—not a nap for your schedule, but a deep stillness for your soul? When Jesus promises rest, He is not offering tips and tricks. He is offering Himself. He is the still water for parched people. He is the calm in the storm and the kindness you can lean on. He knows the weight you carry, and He knows the way to carry you.

So, yes, we’re going to get honest about the burdens we bear. Honest about the anger that simmers. Honest about the disappointment that has overstayed its welcome. Then we will come to Jesus—simply, sincerely, and soon. And as we do, we will find a holy steadiness to keep walking, upheld by His presence that does not flicker when the wind picks up. He gives comfort that steadies, peace that settles, and strength that stays.

This is for the worn and worried. For the caregiver and the teacher, the single parent and the student, the retiree and the rookie, the leader who is lonely and the follower who feels forgotten. If your heart is heavy, hear His words with fresh ears: “Come to me.” This is your invitation. This is your permission to stop striving for a moment and start receiving for a lifetime. His rest is not an escape hatch; it is an embrace. It is the place where your soul remembers who is in charge, who is in control, and who is incredibly close.

Before we open our hearts further, let’s open our hands in prayer.

Opening Prayer: Lord Jesus, we hear Your invitation: “Come to me.” We come as we are—tired, tense, and thirsty. You know the burdens we carry and the tears we swallow. We ask for Your promised rest. Teach us to name our pain in Your presence without pretending. Draw us near to Your heart, where gentleness heals and grace holds. Lift what is too heavy for us, and steady our steps with Your nearness. As we listen today, quiet the noise within and around us. Speak life to our spirits, peace to our minds, and courage to our wills. We receive Your kindness, we rely on Your strength, and we rejoice that You are with us. In Your strong and tender name we pray, Amen.

Naming the pain without pretending

Honesty is hard when pain feels messy. It can feel safer to stay vague. It can feel easier to push it down and keep moving. Yet things we refuse to name keep running the show. They leak out in sharp words and tight jaws. They crowd our mind and leave us restless. Truth in plain words is a door God uses. It is a simple door. It swings wide when you speak what hurts.

Naming starts small. It can sound like, “I am sad.” Or, “I am scared.” Or, “I am angry.” It can be, “I feel alone,” or, “I am tired in my bones.” It can be as simple as pointing to where it lives in your body. “My chest feels heavy.” “My stomach is in knots.” These are not weak words. They are brave words. They tell the Lord where to meet you.

Scripture shows us this pattern. Read the prayers in the Psalms. They cry. They ask hard questions. They describe sleepless nights and soaked pillows. They tell God about enemies and failures and shame. Those prayers are not polished. They are plain. God keeps them in His book as a sign that He listens to real pain put in real words.

Pretending wears a mask. It smiles while the heart hurts. It quotes lines while the soul chokes. It says “I’m fine” when life is on fire. Pretending seems polite. It keeps people comfortable. It keeps us stuck. God is not scared of the truth. He already knows. He waits for you to say it so you can receive help where it actually hurts.

Honest prayer is not long to be heard. It is true to be healed. You can whisper it. You can write it. You can say it between meetings. You can cry it in the car. God hears the words and the groans. He hears the sigh you hide. He sorts the tangle when you cannot find language. Offer Him what you have. Offer Him what is raw. Offer Him what you would rather hide.

There is also the pain behind the pain. The fear of being judged. The fear of being a burden. The fear that nothing will change. Say that too. “I am afraid to say this out loud.” “I am scared You will be silent.” “I do not know what to do next.” When you speak the deeper layer, shame loses ground. Light reaches places that stay dark in silence.

Some pain is old. It comes from years ago. It shows up today in ways that surprise you. Some pain is new. It arrived with a phone call or a report or a text. Both kinds can be named. God is present in both stories. He can touch wounds from the past. He can steady you in the present. He can teach you how to live in truth today.

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Bodies keep score. Tension, headaches, tight shoulders, short breaths. Bring that in prayer. Sit still for a moment. Notice where it sits. Put a hand there. Tell Jesus what it feels like. Breathe in His peace. Breathe out your fear. This is not self-help. This is fellowship with the One who cares.

Honesty with God often opens honesty with trusted people. A friend. A pastor. A counselor. Someone safe who keeps your words. Speaking with them is another way of telling the truth. You are not less faithful when you ask for help. You are practicing wisdom. Often the grace you asked God for arrives through a person who listens and prays.

When Jesus calls you to come, He is calling the real you. The one with tears salt on the face. The one with doubt in the chest. The one who forgot how to rest. You do not need the right phrases. You need a willing heart. Lift what you can. If all you can lift is a whisper, bring that. He knows what to do with small faith.

He calls you to Himself. That means you are not walking toward a task. You are walking toward a Person. You come with your words and wounds. You come with your questions and quiet. You come because Someone strong and kind has asked you to come. Movement toward Him can be a prayer as simple as, “Here I am.” When you answer that call, you are already practicing truth. You are saying, “This is where I am, and I am bringing it to You.” That is the heart of it. Truth in motion.

He names who He is calling. People who feel worn out. People who carry heavy loads. He does not ask how the load got there before He speaks hope. He does not sort pain by type or weight. The tired belong in this sentence. The overloaded belong in this sentence. If you feel like you are always behind, you are in range. If you carry care for others and it feels like too much, you are in range. Let that word “all” stretch wide over your life. Stand under it. Let it include you.

He promises rest. Rest is gift. It comes from His hand. It settles the mind that runs in circles. It loosens the grip in your chest. It quiets the fear that keeps knocking. This rest does not erase real problems. It steadies you inside them. It makes room for wisdom. It gives you strength to take the next small step. You receive it with open hands. You receive it as you speak the truth and lean your weight on Him. He gives what He says He will give.

The way you come can be simple. Use plain words. Tell Him what happened and how it felt. List the things that feel heavy. Speak out loud if you can. Write them if you cannot. Picture setting each weight in His hands. Say, “I give You this,” and name it. Sit for a moment. Let quiet come. If tears rise, let them fall. If no words come, sit with Him. In that simple place, His promise holds. He hears. He knows. He gives rest.

Coming to Jesus for the rest our souls need

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