Learning To Forgive As Christ Forgave

LEARNING TO FORGIVE AS CHRIST FORGAVE

By Rev. Samuel Arimoro

Main Text: Colossians 3:13

Supporting Texts: Matthew 6:14-15, Ephesians 4:31-32, Luke 23:34, Matthew 18:21-35, Romans 5:8

INTRODUCTION:

Forgiveness is one of the most powerful and liberating principles of the Christian life. At the heart of the Gospel is the message of reconciliation—God forgiving sinners through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ. Just as we have received God’s mercy, we are commanded to extend the same to others, no matter the offence.

Many people live with the burden of bitterness, anger, and resentment because of wounds inflicted by others. However, God calls us to walk in freedom, not bondage. Forgiveness is not ignoring the pain or pretending it didn’t happen; it is choosing to release the offence and allow God to heal the heart.

To forgive as Christ forgave is a high calling—it requires grace, humility, and love. But it is also a necessary step toward spiritual maturity, healing, and peace. Let us explore what it means to truly forgive like Christ and how we can live this out daily.

1. UNDERSTAND THE NATURE OF CHRIST’S FORGIVENESS

a) Christ forgave unconditionally (Romans 5:8):

Jesus did not wait for us to deserve forgiveness—He forgave us while we were still sinners. True forgiveness must not be based on the offender’s apology or remorse but on our obedience to God.

b) Christ forgave completely (Hebrews 8:12):

When Jesus forgives, He remembers our sins no more. We must learn not to keep bringing up past wrongs but let go completely.

c) Christ forgave sacrificially (Luke 23:34):

Even in His suffering on the cross, Jesus asked the Father to forgive His persecutors. Forgiveness may be painful, but it reflects the heart of Christ.

d) Christ forgave out of love (John 3:16):

Love was the foundation of Christ’s forgiveness. If we truly walk in love, forgiveness will become a natural response.

Biblical Example: Stephen, while being stoned, mirrored Christ’s example by asking God not to charge his killers with the sin (Acts 7:59-60).

2. FORGIVENESS HEALS THE OFFENDED AND RESTORES PEACE

a) Forgiveness sets you free (Matthew 6:14-15):

When we forgive, we release ourselves from emotional and spiritual bondage.

b) Unforgiveness breeds bitterness and hinders prayers (Mark 11:25):

Holding grudges corrupts our spirit and blocks divine communication.

c) Forgiveness invites God’s peace (Colossians 3:15):

A heart that forgives is a dwelling place for God’s peace and joy.

d) Forgiveness paves the way for restoration (Philemon 1:15-16):

Reconciliation becomes possible when we choose to forgive.

Biblical Example: Joseph forgave his brothers who betrayed him, leading to the restoration and preservation of his family (Genesis 50:15-21).

3. FORGIVENESS IS A CHOICE AND A COMMAND

a) It is not based on feelings but obedience (Matthew 18:21-22):

Jesus told Peter to forgive not seven times, but seventy times seven. Forgiveness is not optional for believers.

b) God expects us to forgive others as He forgave us (Ephesians 4:32):

Our forgiveness is measured by the standard of God’s mercy toward us.

c) Choosing not to forgive leads to torment (Matthew 18:34-35):

The unforgiving servant was delivered to the tormentors—showing how unforgiveness opens doors to spiritual oppression.

d) Forgiveness is part of our identity as children of God (Luke 6:36):

We reflect our Father’s heart when we show mercy and let go of offences.

Biblical Example: Jesus told the parable of the unforgiving servant to teach that we must forgive others as we have been forgiven (Matthew 18:21-35).

4. PRACTICAL STEPS TO FORGIVE LIKE CHRIST

a) Pray for the grace to forgive (Philippians 4:13):

Forgiveness may seem impossible, but with God’s help, it becomes achievable.

b) Release the offence to God (Romans 12:19):

Don’t seek revenge—let God be the judge and healer.

c) Bless those who hurt you (Luke 6:28):

Speak kindly of them and wish them well, even if your feelings don’t yet align.

d) Rebuild trust only when appropriate (Proverbs 4:23):

Forgiveness is immediate, but reconciliation and trust may take time and discernment.

Biblical Example: Jesus restored Peter after his denial—not just forgiving him but commissioning him afresh for ministry (John 21:15-17).

CONCLUSION:

Forgiveness is at the core of the Gospel and the key to healthy relationships and spiritual freedom. To forgive as Christ forgave means to extend mercy unconditionally, to release offences completely, and to love sincerely. It is not always easy, but it is always necessary.

If you are struggling with unforgiveness today, remember how much Christ has forgiven you. When you choose to let go, you make room for healing, joy, and divine peace. Walk in the footsteps of Jesus—learn to forgive, and you will experience the fullness of life He offers.

PRAYER POINTS:

1. Lord, help me to forgive others as You have forgiven me.

2. Father, heal every wound caused by offence and betrayal.

3. I break the power of bitterness and resentment over my life.