Interpersonal Do's And Don'ts

Do's

1. Love one another as Jesus Christ has loved you. (John 13:34,35)

2. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love and pursue Godly goals together. (Romans 12:10)

3. Honor one another above yourself and speak affirmingly to each other with respect. (Rom. 12:10)

4. Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality. (Romans 12:13)

5. Bless those who persecute you. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. (Rom.12:14)

6. Live in harmony with one another. Be willing to associate with people of low position. (Rom. 12:16)

7. Do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, live at peace with everyone. (Rom 12:17,18)

8. Accept him whose faith is weak without passing judgment on disputable matters. (Rom. 14:1)

9. Love your neighbor as yourself. Love does no harm to its neighbor. (Rom. 13:9,10)

10. Give everyone what you owe him: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor. (Rom. 13:7)

11. Make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification. (Rom. 14:19)

12. Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. (Rom. 15:7)

13. Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of live. (Eph. 5:1)

14. Do something useful with your hands that you may have something to share with those in need. (Eph. 4:28)

15. Put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. (Eph. 4:25)

16. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. (Eph. 4:32)

17. Speak the truth in love so that you may grow up into Him who is the Head, that is Christ. From Him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work. (Eph. 4:15,16)

18. As God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell richly in you as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts. (Col. 3:12-16)

19. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. (Phil. 2:3,4)

20. Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure. (Phil. 2:14)

21. Warn the idle, encourage the timid, help the weak, be patient with everyone. Make sure nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and to everyone. Be joyful always, pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances. (I Thes. 5:14-18)

Don'ts

1. Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you. (Rom. 12:3)

2. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. (Rom. 12:16)

3. Do not repay anyone evil for evil. (Rom. 12:17)

4. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay, says the Lord. (Rom. 12:19)

5. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. (Rom. 12:21)

6. Do not let any debt remain outstanding…Do not commit adultery, Do not murder, Do not steal, Do not covet. (Rom. 13:8,9)

7. Do not by your eating destroy your brother for whom Christ died. Do not allow what you consider good to be spoken of as evil. (Rom. 14:15)

8. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs. Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God… Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. (Eph. 4:29-31)

9. In your anger do not sin, do not let the sun go down while you are still angry and do not give the devil a foothold. (Eph. 4:26)

10. Do not live by your sinful desires, they are in conflict with your Spiritual nature. The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. (Gal. 5:17-21)