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How To Do Right When You’ve Been Done Wrong Series
Contributed by Gordon Curley on Dec 13, 2013 (message contributor)
Summary: How to do right when you’ve been done wrong (PowerPoint slides to accompany this talk are available on request – email: gcurley@gcurley.info)
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SERMON OUTLINE:
(1). Be open before the Lord (vs 1-2)
(2). Remember God’s Loving Faithfulness (vs 3)
(3). Refuse to Listen to Ungodly Advice (vs 4-5)
(4). Keep Your Hands Clean and Your Heart Thankful (vs 6-7)
(5). Be faithful in Public worship (vs 8)
(6). Patiently stand and wait for relief (vs 9-12)
SERMON BODY:
Ill:
• I like the story of the pastor who received an anonymous letter;
• When he opened it up it just contained a sheet of white paper;
• And written on it in capital letters was the word "FOOL!"
• The next Sunday service when he got to speak the congregation he said,
• "I've gotten many notes without signatures before;
• But this is the first time I got one where someone forgot to write the note;
• And just signed their name!"
• TRANSITION:
• Whether we are in the public arena or simply private individuals;
• None of us like to be criticised;
• None of us like to be wrongly accused;
• None of us like it when we feel we are getting unfair treatment!
This psalm helps us to do right when we feel we’ve been done wrong!
• Now this psalm goes against the normal human response to mistreatment:
• Our natural reaction to unfair treatment is to defend ourselves.
• Other people might give us the advice, “Don’t get mad, get even!”
• Yet this psalm is in contrast to that way of thinking;
• It tells us there is a better way;
• There is a supernatural alternative to our natural reaction.
• If you are here tonight with some deep wounds;
• If you have had to endure mistreatment;
• Let this psalm act as both a warning and a guide;
• A warning because we can easily become bitter, hostile and unpleasant;
• Long term bitterness affects us more than the one we are angry towards:
• Quote: “Bitterness is like drinking poison and waiting for the other guy to die.”
• Let this psalm act as both a warning and a guide;
• May it keep us from becoming bitter, hurtful and unpleasant;
• And may it guide us, direct us and shape us as we seek to follow its advice.
Note:
• The theme of this psalm (verse 1):
• David begins with a strong emotional plea,
• N.I.V.:
• “Vindicate me, LORD, for I have led a blameless life;
I have trusted in the LORD and have not faltered. “
• G.N.B.:
• “Declare me innocent, O Lord, because I do what is right and trust you completely”.
• David was a godly man, while his enemies were godless;
• They are described in this psalm as deceitful, hypocritical and wicked evildoers,
• These malicious men were publicly slandering David;
• Some commentators suggest this psalm occurred;
• When Absalom was trying to seize the throne by spreading lies about his father.
• (2 Samuel chapter 14-15)
So David starts off this psalm with a strong emotional plea:
• He asks God to ‘vindicate’ him;
• He asks God to give him justice and defend his reputation.
• And despite the daily grind of mistreatment he was experiencing;
• David was determined to keep on trusting his Lord;
• And he would not let others trip him up by their false accusations.
• The word translated in verse 1 as “falter” means; “to slip or slide or totter”.
Ill:
• When someone hurts you, you've been robbed.
• Because that's what the enemy does (John chapter 10 verse 10),
• And that person is acting as an agent of the enemy.
• But if you don't forgive, you will continue to be robbed.
• Picture this: Someone comes and knocks on your door in the middle of the night.
• You're sound asleep so you don't hear it.
• But you have a guest,
• And the guest hears it and comes down the stairs and answer the door.
• The visitor says: "I want to rob your house."
• And your house guest says; "Sure come on in."
• And then the house guest goes back to bed, leaving the thief to help himself!
• In the morning, you wake up & find out that the thief has taken all your electrical goods.
• And worse, you find out that your guest is responsible.
• You would of course be angry!
• You night even kick your guest out and end the friendship.
• Now suppose the next night, you're still so angry that you can't sleep.
• And there is another knock at the door.
• This time you go down stairs and you answer the door.
• It is the same thief who says, "I want to rob your house."