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How Negative Speech Can Have Devastating Consequences Series
Contributed by Shaila Touchton on Apr 28, 2025 (message contributor)
Summary: When we speak negative, destructive words, we unleash a toxic force that can bring harm and devastation into our lives.
In the book of Proverbs, Solomon writes, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits" (Proverbs 18:21). This verse highlights the profound impact of our words on ourselves and those around us. When we speak negative, destructive words, we unleash a toxic force that can bring harm and devastation into our lives.
The Bible teaches that our words have the power to create and destroy. In the book of James, we're reminded that "the tongue is a small part of the body, but it boasts of great things" (James 3:5). Just as a spark can ignite a massive fire, our words can either bring life or death.
When we speak negatively, we're not just expressing our thoughts; we're also releasing spiritual forces that can attract darkness and chaos into our lives. The apostle Paul warns, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen" (Ephesians 4:29).
The Consequences of Negative Speech
Speaking negatively can have severe consequences, including:
Destruction of relationships: Negative words can hurt, offend, and damage relationships, causing long-term harm and division.
Attracting negative energies: When we speak negatively, we can attract similar energies and spirits into our lives, creating a toxic environment that's conducive to darkness and chaos.
Self-inflicted harm: Negative speech can also harm the speaker themselves, reinforcing negative thought patterns and emotions that can lead to spiritual, emotional, and even physical harm.
The Power of Positive Speech
On the other hand, speaking positively and kindly can have a transformative impact on our lives. When we choose to speak life-giving words, we:
Build others up: Positive speech can uplift, encourage, and inspire others, creating a ripple effect of kindness and compassion.
Attract positive energies: Speaking positively can attract similar energies and spirits into our lives, creating an environment that's conducive to joy, peace, and love.
Transform ourselves: Positive speech can also transform the speaker themselves, reinforcing positive thought patterns and emotions that can lead to spiritual, emotional, and physical well-being.
The Spiritual Roots of Negative Speech
From a biblical perspective, negative speech can be seen as a manifestation of spiritual forces that oppose God's will. The Bible teaches that Satan and his demons seek to destroy humanity through various means, including influencing our thoughts and words.
In the book of John, Jesus says, "You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of lies" (John 8:44). This verse highlights the devil's role in promoting falsehood and deception.
Demonic Influence on Speech
When we speak negatively, we may be giving voice to demonic influences that seek to destroy our lives and relationships. The Bible warns, "The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly" (John 10:10). Negative speech can be a doorway for demonic forces to enter our lives, leading to chaos and destruction.
Breaking Free from Negative Speech
To overcome negative speech, we can:
Pray for deliverance: Ask God to deliver you from negative thoughts and words.
Renew your mind: Focus on God's truth and renew your mind with positive, uplifting thoughts.
Speak life: Choose to speak positively and kindly, using words that build others up.
Seek accountability: Surround yourself with people who encourage and support you in speaking positively.
Conclusion
Negative speech can have devastating consequences, and recognizing its spiritual roots can help us address the issue more effectively. By understanding the biblical perspective on demonic influence and taking steps to break free from negative speech, we can choose to speak life and experience the abundant life God offers.
Our words have the power to shape our reality and impact those around us. When we speak negative, destructive words, we risk unleashing a toxic force that can bring harm and devastation into our lives. By choosing to speak positively and kindly, we can create a more loving, supportive, and life-giving environment – and transform our own lives in the process.
As the Bible reminds us, "A gentle tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit" (Proverbs 15:4). Let's choose to speak life.