Honouring Godly Fathers (Father's Day)

HONOURING GODLY FATHERS

By Rev. Samuel Arimoro

Main Text: Ephesians 6:1-4

Supporting Texts: Genesis 18:19, Malachi 4:6, Proverbs 17:6, Luke 15:20–24, Psalm 103:13

INTRODUCTION:

Father’s Day is a time set aside to celebrate and appreciate the men who have been entrusted with the role of fatherhood. It is not just a cultural celebration, but a divine opportunity to honour those who have been given a sacred responsibility by God. Fathers play a unique role in shaping not only families but also communities and nations. A godly father is a reflection of God the Father in love, leadership, and legacy.

Today’s world presents many challenges to the role of fathers, with media and society often downplaying their importance. Yet, the Word of God reveals that fathers have an irreplaceable place in the divine order. They are called to lead their families spiritually, emotionally, and morally. Their presence and involvement are keys to raising strong, stable, and godly children.

This message calls every father to rise up to divine expectations and invites every child and spouse to honour the fathers in their lives. It is also a message of hope and restoration for men who may have faltered, reminding them that God equips and restores those He calls.

1. GODLY FATHERS LEAD BY EXAMPLE

a) Spiritual leadership begins at home (Genesis 18:19):

Abraham was chosen because he would direct his family in God's ways. A godly father must first lead his household in truth and righteousness.

b) Living a consistent life of integrity (Proverbs 20:7):

A father's actions speak louder than words. Children observe and emulate what they see.

c) Taking responsibility for family decisions (Joshua 24:15):

A father is the head of the home and must take spiritual responsibility for the direction of the family.

d) Being an example of faith and courage (Hebrews 11:7):

Like Noah, a godly father walks in obedience even when others don’t understand.

Biblical Example: Abraham, who led his family in faith and became the father of many nations (Genesis 18:19).

2. GODLY FATHERS SHOW COMPASSION AND MERCY

a) Fathers reflect God's love and compassion (Psalm 103:13):

God compares His mercy to the compassion of a father on his children.

b) Knowing when to correct and when to comfort (Hebrews 12:6):

Correction should be done in love, not in anger.

c) Practising patience and understanding:

A father should be slow to anger and quick to forgive, modelling God’s grace.

d) Building emotional bonds with children:

A loving father builds confidence and security in the hearts of his children.

Biblical Example: The father of the prodigal son, who ran to embrace his wayward son with love (Luke 15:20–24).

3. GODLY FATHERS ESTABLISH SPIRITUAL FOUNDATIONS

a) Teaching the Word of God diligently (Deuteronomy 6:6–7):

Fathers must instil God’s truth in their children through daily example and instruction.

b) Praying over their family regularly (Job 1:5):

Job interceded for his children, a habit every father should develop.

c) Creating an environment of faith in the home (2 Timothy 1:5):

A spiritual atmosphere influences children for life.

d) Prioritising the presence of God at home (Joshua 24:15):

Fathers must declare, “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”

Biblical Example: Job, who consistently prayed for and sanctified his family (Job 1:5).

4. GODLY FATHERS PROTECT AND PROVIDE

a) Providing for the household is a godly duty (1 Timothy 5:8):

A godly father works to ensure his family's physical needs are met.

b) Protecting the family from moral and spiritual harm:

Fathers guard the gates of their homes, rejecting anything that dishonours God.

c) Being available in times of need:

A godly father does not only give money but also time, presence, and counsel.

d) Trusting God to meet the family's needs (Psalm 37:25):

A father models faith in God’s provision.

Biblical Example: Joseph, who protected and provided for Mary and Jesus during difficult times (Matthew 2:13–15).

5. GODLY FATHERS BUILD LEGACIES OF BLESSING

a) Blessing their children intentionally (Genesis 49:28):

Fathers have spiritual authority to speak destiny into their children's lives.

b) Leaving behind a testimony of faith (Hebrews 11:4):

The life of a godly father becomes a lasting example.

c) Investing in their children’s future (Proverbs 13:22):

Legacy is not just wealth but values, vision, and virtue.

d) Training up children in godly character (Proverbs 22:6):

Fathers shape the next generation through instruction and example.

Biblical Example: David, who passed the legacy of worship and honour for God to Solomon (1 Chronicles 28:9–10).

CONCLUSION:

Fathers are God’s vessels of strength, direction, and blessing in the family. Their influence cannot be substituted or ignored. As we honour fathers today, let us be thankful for those who have sacrificed, prayed, taught, and nurtured their families in the fear of the Lord.

To every father, God is calling you higher—to lead, to love, and to leave a legacy. If you feel you have failed in the past, today is a day of restoration. God is not only your model as a Father, but also your strength to be the father He created you to be.