Higher Call Of Discipleship

Introduction: This morning we come face to face with a practical problem confronting everyone here; namely, overcoming our resentment toward people we don't like. In our scripture today, Jesus suggests the higher call of Christian discipleship is not how well we get along with our friends, but how adept we are at loving our enemies.

Let's be honest. We all deal with people we do not like.

? We don't like people who make us feel inferior.

? We don't like people who think they are always right.

? We don't like people who find fault with everything but have no constructive solutions for anything.

? We don't like people who pretend to be what they are not.

? We don't like people who view everything in life in terms of what it will mean to their own comfort and success.

What we don't like about other people is the basis of conflict and resentment between neighbors, between employer and employee, between politician and constituent, and between haves and have-nots. Even between parent and child, and husband and wife. Now it has even taken the shape of color.

Nowhere in the New Testament does Jesus sanction human shortcomings as justification for resentment. He says, in effect, "Hate the sin, but love the sinner." It all adds up to this: the higher call of discipleship is to be able to love people we do not like.

What is the Higher Call of Discipleship?

1. "Love your enemies..."

When Jesus says, "Love your enemies," we need to recognize that in the New Testament there are three words for "love" which carry very different and distinct meanings. They are EROS, PHILIA, and AGAPE.

• EROS means being drawn to another person because of his or her attractiveness: the object of the love is the source of the love. It is from eros that we get the word erotic. Its most complete fulfillment is in a happy, marital relationship, but in whatever kind of relationship we find this love, it rests on a real appreciation of the physical beauty, charm, merits, or talents of the beloved.

• PHILIA is an attraction to another person because of mutual interest or concern. It arises between two persons who enjoy the same things, who like the same people. Its most vivid possibility is found in friendship. In modern usage, we find philia as the root of the word philanthropy, a love of mankind that is demonstrated through benevolent gifts or deeds.

• AGAPE, unlike the other two types of love, does not depend upon the loveableness of another person, or upon shared interests. It arises from the recognition of the needs of other people. It has no hidden motive. Or, as Paul put it in his letter to the church at Corinth, "Agape does not insist on its own way." This love expresses itself in action; not necessarily accompanied by emotion or sentiment.

Agape emphasizes the free-will aspect of love, the determination to seek the good of the one who is loved. It's obvious, when you think about it, this is the only kind of commendable love. In the Bible, whenever love is commanded as a duty toward our neighbor or toward our enemy, it is always agape that is used and never the first two.

To give agape the sharpest definition possible, Jesus chooses an example in which no element of eros or philia are mixed in. He says, "Love your enemies …"

When you look at it this way, it begins to throw some light on your problem. You can love your enemies in spite of the fact that you do not like them, because you are able to control your will. Whereas you cannot command your feelings, or your emotions.

We can put it down as fact that Jesus never says we must like our enemies. What he commands is that we desire their welfare, that we seek their highest good, whether we like them or not.

There is a second part to Jesus' higher call of discipleship:

2. "Do good to those who hate you …"

This story of General Washington and the petition for pardon illustrates that "doing good" means just that: doing good. During that dreadful winter at Valley Forge, while General George Washington's army was freezing, the British sat snugly in their warm barracks in Philadelphia, growing fat on American bread and beef. Morale in the Continental Army was low, and Washington himself was filled with an overwhelming sense of helplessness. In the course of that season, a man walked fifty miles through the bitter cold to beg General Washington to spare the life of a soldier who had been sentenced for neglect of duty. "I am very sorry," said Washington, "but I cannot grant the request for your friend's pardon." "He is not my friend!" the man replied. "I suppose that there is not another man alive that hates me to the extent that your prisoner does." Washington looked very surprised and said, "Surely you are not pleading for someone who hates you?" "Yes," said the man, "because I know him to be completely innocent of the charge." "Then," said the general, "I shall grant the pardon."