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Growing Pains

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Created by Sermon Research Assistant on Oct 12, 2025
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God uses our pain and trials not to harm us, but to grow our hope, maturity, and fruitfulness for His greater purpose.

Introduction

Friend, I’m glad you’re here. Some of us walked in today with a quiet ache that doesn’t let go. The diagnosis was unexpected. The stack of bills looks tall. The silence in the house feels louder than it used to. Life can sting. Yet God meets us right in the middle of the mess and whispers a word our hearts still need: hope.

Hope does not cancel pain, but it can carry us through it. Hope lifts our eyes when our shoulders sag. Hope reminds us that our tears have a timetable and our trials have a Teacher. Hear this steadying sentence from Pastor Adrian Rogers: "A faith that cannot be tested cannot be trusted." Trials do more than trouble us; they teach us. They sand away self-reliance, strengthen what God is building within us, and set our feet on firmer ground.

So today we will sit beneath three truths that breathe life into weary souls: - Hope reframes our pain. - Trials forge maturity. - Pruned to bear more fruit.

When you and I are weary, we crave relief; God promises something deeper—renewal. He is not wasting your midnights. He is weaving them. There are seasons when it feels like the Gardener has the shears out, trimming what we wish He would leave alone. But what if that trimming is mercy in disguise? What if the cuts you feel today clear the way for a harvest you cannot yet see? What if the pressure you’re under is preparing you, not punishing you? What if the very place that hurts becomes the very place where heaven’s hope takes hold and holds you?

Take a breath. Place your cares in God’s hands as you read His Word. Let Scripture speak, settle, and strengthen.

Romans 8:18 (ESV) "For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us."

James 1:2–4 (ESV) "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."

John 15:2 (ESV) "Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit."

Father, thank You for Your nearness in every season. Speak to us through Your Word. Reframe our pain with living hope. Use our trials to forge steadfast hearts. Where You prune, give us grace to trust Your hand and welcome Your purposes, so that we bear more fruit for Your glory. Lift the discouraged, steady the anxious, and warm cold hearts with the light of Christ. We ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Hope reframes our pain

Pain feels close. It sits in the chair next to us. We carry it in our pockets. It shows up in the night and in the morning. It makes the day feel long. It can cloud what we see. It can make us forget who is with us. Scripture gives us a way to see again.

Paul names what many of us feel. Suffering is real. Yet he sets it beside the future that God has promised. He speaks in Romans 8:18 about "the glory that is to be revealed to us." He treats the future as solid, like weight on a scale. He puts present hardship on one side and the coming reveal of God’s glory on the other side. The scale tilts. It is not a small tilt. The tilt is heavy with the world to come. This does not shrink what hurts. It stretches our vision. It says, there is more than the moment. It says, the story we are in has a horizon, and that horizon shines. When we remember that, our questions change. We start to ask, how does this hard day fit inside forever? We start to pray, Lord, help me see the future You promised, even as I walk through what I feel right now. Then pain stops being the whole picture. It becomes a piece of a bigger canvas that God will finish with glory.

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James gives us another angle. He tells us to count it as joy when we face many kinds of trials. That sounds strange at first. Joy does not mean we like pain. Joy means we see what God grows through it. James says testing produces steadfastness. He uses a word that sounds like staying power. It is the strength to stand when the wind blows. It is faith with a grip. As that strength grows, we become more whole. James says we become mature and complete, lacking nothing. God cares about that kind of wholeness. He wants more than quick fixes. He wants a settled heart. He uses pressure to shape that heart. Think about muscles. They grow under tension. Think about steel. It is forged in heat. Faith grows like that. God meets us in the strain. He gives grace for this hour. He grows patience and courage inside us. Then the next storm comes, and we do not fold as fast. We find that patience again. We find that courage again. This is how trials serve us. They become soil where endurance takes root and spreads.

Jesus talks about vines and branches in John 15:2. He says the Father cares for each branch. He trims what does not help the branch flourish. He also trims healthy branches so they can carry more life. This picture is tender. It shows careful hands. A wise gardener snips on purpose. He does not waste a cut. He knows where to clip and when to stop. The goal is fruit, and more of it. That means there will be seasons when God removes things we thought we needed. He may cut back our pride. He may strip away hurry. He may turn down the noise. It can sting. The branch bleeds sap. Yet the care is loving. The vine keeps feeding the branch. The life of Christ keeps flowing. Over time, buds swell. New clusters form. What felt like loss becomes healthy growth. The branch bears more because it was tended, even through the cut.

All of this shifts how we live in the middle of pain. We hold to the future glory Paul names. We welcome the steady heart James describes. We trust the careful hands Jesus reveals. This changes our prayers. We start to ask for eyes that see the end God has promised. We start to ask for staying power in the grind. We start to ask for wise trimming in the places that keep us from fruit. It also changes our choices. We give space for God’s Word each day. We lean on brothers and sisters who remind us of truth. We let small acts of love mark our steps. We wait with purpose. We suffer with purpose. We look for fruit, even if it is small. We thank God for any sign of new life. We say, Father, keep Your hand on the branch. Keep Your life in me. Keep me steady until the day You make all things new.

Trials forge maturity

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