Introduction

Welcome, dear family in Christ, to another blessed opportunity to gather together, to unite our hearts in the love of God, and to find nourishment for our souls in His Word. We're here today, not by accident, but by His divine appointment. We are here to meet with God, to learn from Him, and to be transformed by His truth.

Our focus today is on forgiveness, a theme that echoes throughout the Scriptures and resonates deeply within our own lives. We have all experienced the need for forgiveness, both as the one who has been wronged and as the one who has wronged others. It's a universal human experience, and yet, it's also a divine calling.

The great preacher Charles Spurgeon once said, "To be forgiven is such sweetness that honey is tasteless in comparison with it. But yet there is one thing sweeter still and that is to forgive." This profound statement will serve as a guiding light as we seek to understand the true nature of forgiveness, not merely as an act, but as a lifestyle.

Today, we'll be reflecting on two passages from the book of Matthew. In Matthew 5:38-48, Jesus says, "You have heard that it was said, 'Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.' But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well...You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven."

And in Matthew 18:21-22, Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times."

These passages offer a radical and transformative understanding of forgiveness. They challenge us to rise above our human instincts, to reflect the heart of our Father in heaven, and to extend to others the same grace that we have received.

Manifesting Meaning of Forgiveness

In the heart of Matthew's Gospel, we find Jesus challenging the common understanding of justice and retaliation. The principle of "eye for an eye, and tooth for a tooth" was a familiar one, a rule that sought to limit the extent of punishment to the severity of the offense. But Jesus turns this principle on its head. He calls His followers to a higher standard, a standard that reflects the heart of God.

This is where we begin to see the true meaning of forgiveness. It's not merely about letting go of a grudge or moving past an offense. It's about choosing love over retaliation, grace over justice. It's about reflecting the heart of God in our interactions with others, even those who have wronged us.

Jesus doesn't just call us to forgive; He calls us to love. He calls us to love our enemies and to pray for those who persecute us. This is a radical, counter-cultural command. It's not easy. It's not natural. But it's the way of Jesus. It's the way of the Kingdom of God.

When we choose to love our enemies, we are choosing to see them as God sees them. We are choosing to recognize their humanity, their worth, and their potential for redemption. We are choosing to extend to them the same grace that God has extended to us.

This is the heart of forgiveness. It's not just about letting go of the past; it's about embracing a future defined by love and grace. It's about choosing to live in a way that reflects the heart of God, even when it's difficult, even when it's costly.

Now, let's turn our attention to the second passage from Matthew's Gospel. Here, Peter asks Jesus a question that many of us have probably asked at one point or another: "How many times should I forgive?" Peter even suggests a number - seven times - perhaps thinking that this is a generous offer. But Jesus' response is startling.

"Not seven times," He says, "but seventy-seven times." In other words, there is no limit to forgiveness. There is no point at which we can say, "I've forgiven enough. I'm done." Forgiveness is not a finite resource; it's an infinite wellspring, a reflection of God's limitless grace.

This is a challenging command. It's not easy to forgive, especially when the wounds are deep and the pain is fresh. But Jesus doesn't call us to do what's easy; He calls us to do what's right. He calls us to reflect the heart of God in our relationships with others, even when it's hard, even when it hurts.

When we choose to forgive, we are choosing to release our right to retaliation. We are choosing to let go of our desire for justice and to embrace God's call to love. We are choosing to reflect the heart of God, who is "compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness" (Psalm 86:15).

In the end, forgiveness is not just about us and the person who has wronged us. It's about us and God. It's about aligning our hearts with His, about choosing to live in a way that reflects His character and His love.

This is the true meaning of forgiveness. It's not just about letting go; it's about reaching out. It's not just about forgetting the past; it's about embracing a future defined by love and grace. It's not just about us; it's about God. And when we choose to forgive, we are choosing to reflect His heart in our world.

Mastering Method of Forgiveness

As we continue to reflect on the teachings of Jesus, we find ourselves confronted with the challenging task of mastering the method of forgiveness ... View this full PRO sermon free with PRO