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Summary: I-IT and I-THOU and I-I

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I-IT and I-THOU to symbolize relationships is Martin Buber’s great contribution to Christians as a Jewish religious philosopher, especially regarding our Readings this Sunday which speak about an integration between personal spirituality, vocational responsibility, and organizational practice.1

“I-IT” means subject to object as our response to our environment, which includes science, but, I-IT also implies separation between people when it comes to seeing them as objects; treating a person as though he or she were a thing.

E.g. A young monk was returning to the monastery after his annual retreat. Waiting for him was the older monk who always criticized him and belittled him. “Out skiving again,” the young monk was cuttingly greeted, “and in spite of all your costly retreats you still look no different to me.” The younger monk paused, smiled and murmured, ‘Ah, maybe; but you look different to me.”2

This illustrates the importance of an I-THOU relationship, like in our First Reading, where, although there as an administrative breakdown in providing the basic necessities of life to the Greek speaking widows of the Christian community, seven deacons are appointed to help, all of whom have Greek names.

The deacons enter into an “I-Thou” relationship as a vocational ministry which entails love as the responsibility of an “I” for a “Thou.”

Evil consists largely in refusing to say “Thou” in the personal realm, in objectifying and seeking to use persons, rather than in allowing a true personal relationship to exist.

In fact, all forms of discrimination against the unborn, and other people, are not the I-THOU relationship, where God is encountered in the person of our neighbor.

Similarly, in the “Interior Castle” of St. Teresa of Avila, she writes that, “In order to profit from this path [of prayer] and ascend to the dwelling places we desire, the important thing is not to think much but to love much; and so, to do that which best stirs you to love.

The more we love and serve our neighbor for the love of God, the better our dwelling will be in our Father's house.

E.g. in the Dialogues of Gregory the Great, which were written in 594, we hear:

There was a pious cobbler named Deusdedit, in Rome. A cobbler is a person who repairs shoes. Every Saturday he took a portion of his week’s earnings to the courtyard of the shrine of St. Peter at Rome. With these he gave alms to the poor who assembled at the shrine. The result of the cobbler’s charity was revealed in a vision to a pious person. The vision was of a house being built in heaven. But this building of a house in heaven happened only on Saturdays. For Saturday was the day on which Deusdedit went to St. Peter’s to give alms to the poor. The house was the cobbler’s “mansion” or “dwelling” in heaven, built by the “treasure” that he had transferred to heaven every Saturday through his gifts to the poor. A similar vision revealed that these mansions were treasure houses in themselves. They were built with bricks of pure gold.3

In contrast, in another story, “A man died and went to heaven.

He was met at the Pearly Gates by St. Peter who led him down the golden streets. They passed stately homes and beautiful mansions until they came to the end of the street where they stopped in front of a rundown cabin. The man asked St. Peter why he got a hut when there were so many mansions he could live in. St. Peter replied, “I did the best with the money you sent us.”

Building on the hermeneutic of Martin Buber, “I-I” is the ultimate union which is in the Eucharist. It is a union that God wants to share with us even if for a time, it is ‘spiritual communion” or ‘communion of the heart’ that most are experiencing if they also worship Jesus in Eucharistic Adoration.

The “eternal Thou” is God, who addressed as Thou in a direct intuitive relationship, but in the Eucharist, who is Jesus in our souls, the Thou is an “I” in communion with you as an “I”.

Our call is to dissolve our resistance to the entrance of the holy into our lived life. The Holy Spirit is born in the Meeting when we love God and others. In that meeting, the Spirit stands between us, a living presence and the source in each meeting, in each discrete minute, in each particular meeting, in everything that is lovely, and true that moves us.

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A teenage girl who was the youngest of eight children had waited for years to have a room of her own. For her sixteenth birthday, her busy mom secretly sewed a beautiful comforter with matching curtains. When the girl arrived home from school on her birthday, she discovered her new room decorated in yellow and pink, her favorite colors. It was a place prepared just for her! 4

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