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Extreme Widows! (Mark 12:41-44)
Contributed by David Smith on Nov 4, 2007 (message contributor)
Summary: My focus here is on three widows - Ruth, her mother-in-law Naomi, and a nameless pensioner who puts all her livelihood into the offertory plate!
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A priest by the name of Wes Seeliger was shopping for a motorcycle. The Harley-Davidson salesperson bragged ‘this machine will go from 0 to 150 in 20 seconds. It will hug the road at 150 km/h. It will outrun anything on wheels. What do you do for a living, sir.’ ‘I’m a priest’ Seeliger said. ‘It’s also very, very safe,’ the salesperson quickly added.
Priests and clergy types have for a long time had a reputation for being cautious and reserved types of folks – conservative and quiet. This is not only true of clergy, of course, but is an association often made with the church in general. The church is seen as a traditional and conservative institution that attracts people who are conservative and have a love of tradition.
At an airport, the parents of one toddler were clearly distressed as their son rampaged around the airport lounge, knocking over bags, spreading his ice cream over people’s seats, and generally making a nuisance of himself. The father was overhead to say ‘perhaps we should send him to Sunday School?’
The assumption again is that church is a quiet, conservative place that will likely have a calming influence on him and teach him to be a little more civilised.
The ever-quotable Mark Twain went so far as to say of the church that "It is a place where nice, respectable people go to listen to a nice, respectable man, teach them how to be nicer and more respectable."
Our Scripture readings today centred around the acts of a number of women – Ruth, and Naomi in our first reading, and a nameless widow in the gospel reading. And these figures had a number of other things in common, apart from just being women.
They were also widows, which entailed them also all being poor and vulnerable persons. They were also, each of them, very insignificant persons in terms of their status in their communities. And one more thing they each had in common – none of them could possibly be characterised as conservative or respectable, or even sensible.
Ruth, if you remember her story – had the choice to do the sensible thing by following her mother-in-law’s instructions to ‘go back home’. It was the sensible thing to do. There she could get a job, start another family, find a new life for herself. She had a better than even chance of finding a future for herself if she headed back home, but not if she stuck it out with the old lady, Naomi.
But Ruth didn’t do the sensible thing. She did the compassionate thing. She stuck by the side of her mother-in-law and refused to abandon her.
And in today’s reading she continued her pattern of reckless abandon – hiding herself in the bedroom of the elderly but eligible Boaz! She took an enormous risk - risking not only her reputation, but risking being violated herself of course. But she took a chance, for the sake of securing a future for herself and for her mother-in-law.
The widow in the gospel story comes across as equally, if not more, outrageous. ‘She gave everything she had!’ – hardly a sensible thing to do for an elderly woman who didn’t even have a pension to depend on!
This gospel story astounds me, frankly, as I can’t see any reason that Jesus and His disciples would be hanging around the treasury area of the Temple, except perhaps to discourage people from putting money in!
You might envisage that Jesus and his team might hang around the donations area sometimes, just to quietly suggest to people that they make their offertory somewhere else (‘hey, had you thought about giving it to the Salvos?…)
Of course this woman didn’t give a lot but, as Jesus pointed out, it was a lot to her!
It’s really a lose-lose situation I would have thought. The temple officials are not going to be impressed by this woman’s offering. as it is not going to make any real difference to them. At the same time though, it will destroy her! And Jesus says … Good on her!
This old woman, Jesus says, "put in far more than all the others. For they gave out of their abundance, but she, out of her poverty, put in everything she had to live on."
And so she is held up before the apostles, not as an example of stupidity, but as a model of Christian integrity and discipleship!
It occurred to me, as I thought about this woman - indeed about all three women - that most of the people Jesus holds up to us as heroes are … well … a bit crazy!
Think of the characters that feature in his stories: Samaritans who risk their lives to help out complete strangers, shepherds who leave 99 sheep on the hillside in order to devote time and energy to one sheep, fathers who allow their sons to waste all their inheritance money and then throw a party for them when they return home!