Can God Forgive Me? Series

God’s forgiveness is not only available but abundant for those who seek it with a repentant heart.

1. Introduction

• Opening Question: “Have you ever felt so burdened by guilt or shame that you wondered, ‘Can God really forgive me?’”

• Relating to the Audience: Share a relatable example of someone struggling with guilt (could be personal, biblical, or hypothetical).

• Thesis Statement: God’s forgiveness is not based on how “big” or “small” the sin is—it is rooted in His love and Christ’s sacrifice.

2. What is Forgiveness?

• Scripture: Ephesians 4:32

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

• Explanation:

• Define forgiveness from a biblical perspective: releasing the debt owed.

• Highlight God’s model of forgiveness—unconditional and complete.

• Illustration: Compare God’s forgiveness to erasing a debt ledger completely, never revisiting it.

3. The Promise of Forgiveness

• Scripture: 1 John 1:9

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”

• Key Points:

• Forgiveness requires confession: acknowledging sin before God.

• God’s faithfulness guarantees forgiveness—not because we deserve it but because of His character.

• Practical Application:

• Encourage listeners to reflect on areas where they need to seek forgiveness.

1. God’s Invitation to Confess

• What Confession Means:

• It’s not just listing sins but agreeing with God about our need for His mercy.

• The Greek word for “confess” (homologeo) means “to say the same thing as.”

• When we confess, we align our understanding with God’s truth about sin.

• Illustration:

• Imagine going to a doctor. Confession is like acknowledging the symptoms to receive the right treatment. Without acknowledgment, healing can’t begin.

• Practical Application:

• Encourage the congregation to take time in personal prayer, not to hide sin but to bring it into the light of God’s grace.

2. God’s Character: Faithful and Just

• Faithful:

• God’s faithfulness assures us that He will always forgive when we come to Him sincerely.

• He does not forgive reluctantly but delights in restoring us. (Micah 7:18: “You do not stay angry forever but delight to show mercy.”)

• Just:

• God’s justice means He doesn’t overlook sin but dealt with it fully through Jesus’ sacrifice.

• Jesus paid the penalty, satisfying God’s justice, so forgiveness is both free to us and costly to Him.

• Emphasize the balance of God’s love and holiness: He forgives, not by ignoring sin, but by addressing it on the cross.

• Illustration:

• A courtroom scene where someone is guilty of a crime but another person steps forward to pay the fine. The judge can now declare the guilty party free, upholding justice while extending mercy.

4. The Cost of Forgiveness

• Scripture: Matthew 26:28

“This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins.”

• Explanation:

• Jesus’ sacrifice is the foundation of forgiveness.

• The cross demonstrates both the weight of sin and the depth of God’s love.

• Illustration: Use an analogy, like someone paying off a large debt they didn’t owe.

5. Overcoming the Lies of Unforgiveness

• Common Lies:

• “My sin is too big for God to forgive.”

• “I’ve failed too many times.”

• “I need to earn forgiveness.”

• Response with Scripture:

• Romans 8:1: “There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”

• Psalm 103:12: “As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.”

Many people struggle with accepting God’s forgiveness because they believe lies that distort their view of His grace. These lies can act as barriers, keeping us from experiencing the fullness of God’s mercy and restoration.

5.1. Lie #1: “My Sin Is Too Big for God to Forgive”

• The Lie:

• This lie convinces us that certain sins are beyond the reach of God’s grace, making us feel unworthy of His forgiveness.

• The Truth:

• Romans 5:20: “Where sin increased, grace increased all the more.”

• God’s grace is infinite, and His forgiveness covers all sins, no matter how severe they seem to us.

• Isaiah 1:18: “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow.”

• Illustration:

• Picture the ocean. No matter how much you pour into it, it never overflows. God’s grace is like that—vast and limitless.

• Application:

• Ask the congregation:

• “What sin have you labeled as ‘too big’ for God to forgive? Will you let Him prove otherwise?”

5.2. Lie #2: “I’ve Failed Too Many Times”

• The Lie:

• This lie makes us believe that repeated failures disqualify us from forgiveness.

• The Truth:

• Lamentations 3:22-23: “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning.”