Strengthening Filipino Christian Families Amid The Diaspora Series

In the Philippines, the diaspora of families due to overseas employment is a common reality. Many Filipino husbands or wives leave their families behind to work in other countries, seeking better financial opportunities. While this decision often comes from a desire to provide for loved ones, it introduces significant challenges to family dynamics and spiritual health. This sermon explores these challenges and provides biblical principles and practical steps to help Filipino Christian families remain strong and united despite physical separation.

The Reality of Separation

Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs) leave behind their spouses and children, enduring long periods of separation. This can lead to emotional strain, loneliness, and misunderstandings within the family. The Bible recognizes the difficulty of being apart from loved ones. In Philippians 1:8 (NIV), Paul expresses his longing to be with the Philippians, saying, "God can testify how I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus." This longing reflects the natural human desire for connection and closeness with loved ones.

Emotional and Spiritual Challenges

Emotional Strain and Loneliness:

The spouse and children left behind often experience loneliness and a sense of loss. The absence of a partner or parent can create a void that is difficult to fill. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (NIV) states, "Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up." This scripture highlights the importance of companionship and support, which are significantly impacted by separation.

Misunderstandings and Communication Gaps:

The lack of face-to-face communication can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. Without regular interaction, it becomes challenging to share daily experiences and emotions. Ephesians 4:2-3 (NIV) encourages us to "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace." Patience and love are essential in maintaining unity, especially when physical distance complicates communication.

Spiritual Disconnect:

The spiritual well-being of a family can be compromised when they are not able to worship and pray together regularly. Hebrews 10:24-25 (NIV) advises, "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching." Regular fellowship and spiritual encouragement are vital for maintaining a strong faith, which can be challenging when family members are apart.

Practical Ways to Combat the Challenges

Prioritize Communication:

Regular and intentional communication is crucial. Technology offers various tools to stay connected, such as video calls, messaging apps, and social media. Schedule regular times to talk and share experiences, ensuring that both the spouse abroad and the family at home feel involved in each other’s lives. Proverbs 16:24 (NIV) says, "Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones." Consistent, loving communication can strengthen bonds and provide emotional healing.

Strengthen Faith Together:

Despite the physical distance, families can still share their faith journeys. Engage in regular family devotions over video calls, share prayer requests, and encourage each other spiritually. Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV) reminds us, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Praying together, even when apart, invites God's peace and strengthens faith.

Seek Community Support:

In the absence of a spouse, seeking support from the local church and community can be invaluable. Church members can provide emotional and spiritual support, helping to fill the void left by the absent family member. Galatians 6:2 (NIV) encourages us to "Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ." Leaning on the church community ensures that no one bears their burdens alone.

Plan Visits and Reunions:

Whenever possible, plan for visits and reunions. These times together are precious and can reinforce family bonds. The anticipation of reuniting can also provide hope and motivation during periods of separation. Psalm 133:1 (NIV) declares, "How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity!" Reunions are opportunities to celebrate unity and renew family relationships.

Create Family Traditions:

Establish family traditions that can be maintained despite the distance. This could include celebrating holidays and special occasions virtually, sending care packages, or writing letters. These traditions create a sense of continuity and connection, reinforcing the family’s identity and unity. Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (NIV) advises, "These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." Consistent family practices help keep God’s teachings and family values at the forefront.