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Dealing With Frustration Series
Contributed by Rev. Samuel Arimoro on Apr 11, 2025 (message contributor)
Summary: Frustration often arises from unmet expectations or perceived obstacles to our goals. Understanding the root causes of frustration allows us to address them from a spiritual perspective.
DEALING WITH FRUSTRATION
By Rev. Samuel Arimoro
Main Text: Philippians 4:6-7
"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."
Supporting Texts: 1 Peter 5:7, James 1:2-4, Psalm 34:17-18, Isaiah 41:10, Romans 8:28
INTRODUCTION:
Frustration is an inevitable part of human life. It comes when things don't go as expected, when we are faced with delays, or when circumstances seem beyond our control. As Christians, we are not exempt from experiencing frustration, but the Bible offers wisdom on how to handle it. Understanding how to deal with frustration not only helps us maintain peace but also strengthens our faith.
The world offers temporary solutions to frustration, such as escaping into distractions, but these are fleeting and often lead to more problems. God, however, offers lasting solutions that can bring peace and clarity. He instructs us to cast our burdens on Him and trust in His perfect timing. This message seeks to uncover biblical truths that help us navigate frustration in a way that honours God.
In the following points, we will explore what frustration is, why it arises, and how we can manage it through a deeper relationship with God. By understanding and applying God's Word, we can move from a place of frustration to a place of peace and trust in His plan.
1. UNDERSTAND THE CAUSES OF FRUSTRATION
Frustration often arises from unmet expectations or perceived obstacles to our goals. Understanding the root causes of frustration allows us to address them from a spiritual perspective.
a) Unmet Expectations
Frustration often comes when we expect things to happen on our timeline, not considering God’s timing (Proverbs 16:9).
b) Lack of Control
When we feel powerless, frustration can take root. We must recognise that control belongs to God (Isaiah 55:8-9).
c) Spiritual Disconnection
Frustration can sometimes indicate a lack of intimacy with God. It’s important to remain connected to Him (John 15:5).
d) Emotional Exhaustion.
Fatigue and emotional weariness can increase the intensity of frustration. Learning to rest in God’s peace is key (Matthew 11:28-30).
Biblical Example: Moses’ frustration with the Israelites in the wilderness (Exodus 17:1-7)
2. TURN FRUSTRATION INTO A PLATFORM FOR PRAYER
Frustration should drive us closer to God rather than further away. Prayer is the antidote to anxiety and frustration.
a) Pray for Strength.
In moments of frustration, God promises to strengthen us (Isaiah 40:29-31).
b) Submit Your Burden to God.
We are encouraged to cast all our cares upon Him, knowing He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7).
c) Ask for Peace.
Philippians 4:6-7 promises that God will give us peace that surpasses understanding when we pray.
d) Seek God’s Wisdom.
In times of frustration, we should ask God for the wisdom to understand His will (James 1:5).
Biblical Example: Hannah’s prayer in her frustration (1 Samuel 1:9-20)
3. TRUST IN GOD'S TIMING AND PURPOSE
Frustration often stems from impatience. Trusting that God’s timing is perfect helps us deal with frustration in a healthy way.
a) God’s Timing is Always Right.
Trusting in His timing helps release frustration and brings peace (Ecclesiastes 3:11).
b) God Works All Things for Good.
Romans 8:28 assures us that God works in all situations for the good of those who love Him.
c) Waiting on God Produces Strength.
Waiting on God, despite frustration, can strengthen our faith (Isaiah 40:31).
d) Rest in God’s Sovereignty.
Trusting in God’s sovereignty over every situation brings peace and diminishes frustration (Psalm 115:3).
Biblical Example: Abraham and Sarah’s wait for Isaac (Genesis 21:1-3)
4. OVERCOME FRUSTRATION THROUGH FAITH
Faith is the key to overcoming frustration. It enables us to believe that God is in control, even when we cannot see the solution.
a) Faith Speaks to the Mountain.
Jesus teaches that faith can move mountains, even when we are frustrated (Matthew 17:20).
b) Faith Produces Patience.
Frustration fades as we build patience through faith (James 1:3-4).
c) Trust God’s Promises.
Standing on God’s promises provides comfort and relief during frustrating times (2 Corinthians 1:20).
d) Faith Activates the Power of God.
With faith, God’s power is made manifest, turning frustration into victory (Mark 9:23).
Biblical Example: The faith of the centurion (Matthew 8:5-13)
5. LET GO OF UNFORGIVENESS AND BITTERNESS
Often, frustration is linked to unforgiveness or unresolved issues. Letting go of bitterness can free us from frustration.
a) Forgive to Heal.
Unforgiveness ties us to frustration. When we forgive, we release the burden of anger (Ephesians 4:31-32).
b) Guard Against Bitterness.
Bitterness can root itself in frustration. The Bible advises us to guard against it (Hebrews 12:15).
c) Love as God Loves.
God’s love enables us to forgive and overcome frustration (Romans 5:5).
