"BUMPS" SHOW CHARACTER
The other day I had a very full cup of coffee. VERY full. To top it off I had to walk back to my desk with it and, as fate would have it, I bumped into the desk corner while walking there. The coffee spilled. There's no hiding spilled coffee on a book or paper and, sure enough, the stains are there on the book I was reading for all time.
It's like that at home, in your marriage too. When you are "bumped" the real you spills out and if that real you is soiled ... well ... the stains will be on those who you are spilled out on for all time. But, if you are filled with the Spirit while being bumped ... that too will spill out.
You cannot hide the real you but you can have the real you transformed by Christ's Spirit into a NEW you!