Somebody smarter than me said the greatest problem in the local church is that we are not who we were designed by God to be. As Believers, we were made to be thick-skinned and tender hearted. That’s how we can “love one another fervently with a pure heart.” (1 Peter 1:22) Instead, we have become hard-heated and thin skinned. We get upset with one another too easily and neglect God’s direction in Matthew 18:15-17