How do you give biblically and with a Christ-like approach to needy people, yet not enable the person to become co-dependent on your giving heart?
(1) Learn to distinguish between DIVINE appointments and drive-by-guiltings (Luke 10:33/ 1 Timothy 5:8/ Deuteronomy 15:11 and Galatians 6:10/ Matthew 25:34-46).
(2) Use wisdom and spiritual DISCERNMENT as you approach an apparent need.
(James 1:1-8, I Peter 5:8-9).
(3) Offer help before you offer ADVICE. (James 2:14-16/ 1 John 3:17-19/ Romans 12:15)
(4) Be discerning and do not ENABLE. (Romans 5:8/ Proverbs 19:17/ 2 Thessalonians 3:10).
(5) Do whatever you can. The answer is not always FINANCIAL. (2 Corinthians 8:12-13/ Luke 10:35/ Mark 6:4-8).